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Do you want to date using Match.com him? Do you love him? If you do then what are you waiting for? I know you perceive him as not being able to make up his mind, but you are the one who stepped aside for your friends to date using Match.com him. Can you ask him what love means to him? or what a serious relationship (thru Match.com) entails? This way you can feel a little better knowing you are not wasting your time with him. At least he is communicating his feelings for you...directly to you...so there is no mistaking his intentions..
In the future, go with your heart because from what I have seen out there...friends these days tend to come and go like men come and go. Society has changed. I was somewhat in your situation, but I was in college and there was a friend of mine who decided to like whomever I liked. After she did this with the second guy I told her that I did not want to be her friend anymore because friends dont do this to each other. ..
Do I want to be with him? yes. do I love him? yes. but does he feel the same?.
Its like, words are just words until they're proven... but how do you know if he's proving it?.
I mean, he says he loves me, but saying it and meaning it are TWO completely different things..
The only way you will know if he means what he says is if you call his bluff on it. But that means you'd have to be ready to admit that you have feelings for him and would be open to seeing what he's got to offer you. That means that the two of you need to have a real honest talk about moving from friends to more than friends...
Love is all about taking a risk...time for you to either put up or shut up. I say go for it......and I wish you much luck!!.
Why not ask him what his intentions are? Does he want to get serious about you or not? Tell him how you feel that it's not just a friendship and you want to move to the next level. It seems like he leans on you when he breaks up with your best friends...