Your question was: WHY IS A GUY WHO LIKES ME STILL on MATCH.com???.
Is the bickering fun like sexual tension or is it real bickering like you r genuinely annoyed? I mean, this is really easy to tell bec ull know if your attracted to him or not. .
The guy I like, I call him "the complainer" for obvious reasons.. God, he drives me insane! And he thinks I'm "the most demanding person on Earth" but we make each other laugh with it all the time and we both (not so secretly) love these things about each other and wouldn't change it. ..
I wouldnt listen to anyone else in this matter. People give the worst advice when it comes to dating. If you feel that you cant stand this guy, then you are better off letting him prey on some other unsuspecting woman. Men will pick fights to get your attention. Playful banter is good as long as it is not the mainstay of your relationship, and leaves the two of you laughing not annoyed. Men who try to instigate your temper (instead of building rapport normally) are usually immature, into head games and control...
Sure you could date using Match.com him and he could find times when he is sweet and romantic, but you already know how he frustrates you. Do you really want to be in a serious relationship (thru Match.com) with someone like that? We all love a strong man, but this sounds more like a controll issue with him. Imagine what it would be like raising kids with someone who makes even the smallest of things a complex issue. No way for me!..
If he is so frustrating, I don't think I'd date using Match.com him. Ask yourself this. If your friends hadn't said you two should date, would you even be considering this?.