Your question was: Who thinks match.com's slogan is stupid? The slogan is "It's okay to look."?.
This is definitely fishy. His ex is comfortable climbing on top of him- does this mean they share a bedroom - but happy he's dating (online dating with Match.com) you.
I would definitely want verification of all this but I'm sorry - I still don't get how they're all still living together. And I dont know if I believe the he suddenly bought a house story.
You have reason to be dubious - so want to make absolutely sure this is someone you can trust before going further. .
This guy is a head case and the fact that he told you that his ex climbed on top of him during the night is definitely a head game move. It is designed to make you jealous when all it should do is confirm that you need to get out of this relationship..
Of course they have had sex over the last 5 years. Does he think you are that stupid? As long as he is living with her he will continue to have sex with her and whomever he is dating..
He is a grown man who feels the need to lie about how many children he has...like you were never going to notice? If a grown man needs to lie to impress a woman...he has major issues that will eventually destroy the relationship (thru Match.com) over time and hurt you terribly along the way. You need not expose yourself to this horror any longer because who knows what other little tidbits are going to leak out over the course of your relationship?..
Well, I broke it off with him last night. We both teared up a bit. He told me I was wrong. He said what if you wake up 3 months from now and find out you were wrong? I told him that if he was really ready for a relationship (thru Match.com) in 3 months when he says she's moving out, then I hope that he calls me. I was really proud of myself. I wasn't sure that I was going to go through with it, but as soon as I saw him, I knew I couldn't develop any further feelings for him because I didn't trust him. The whole time we were at dinner, I kept thinking to myself that he was full of sh!t. He may not have been, but it seemed my mind was already made up. Back to square one again!..
Good for you! I'm sure it wasn't easy but I think you're absolutely right that he's full of BS..
Aside from the whole weird living with the ex thing, what kind of man denies the existence of three of his CHILDREN??? That's just sick, IMO. .
Congrats, you should be proud of yourself. I'm sure you will feel pain at times and wonder if you did the right thing but just remember... you do deserve better. Keep your head held high, pamper yourself, make yourself happy...
Hurray for you! This guy sounds more pathetic each time you talk about him. How can you regret breaking up with a guy who has no life and no future...and doesnt wish to change that? He obviously likes staying stuck in the situation he is in. A woman I knew once kind of fell for a married guy and he kept promising that he would move out of the house. Well, eventually he moved in with a friend on the couch and that wasn't good enough for her...and rightly so...he ended up moving back home and never got his own place. Your ex is already divorced and still doesnt want to move out and acknowledge his kids...how sad...
Congrats, I know it must have been hard but you stood up for yourself in this situation. Be proud!.