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My guy and I have been very strong since April this year, we actually started dating (online dating with Match.com) last sept-dec, but then I needed a break while I was figuring out me.  I went to him in march appologized and after a month of being consistent, we have been strong since April.  We see each other about five days per week and I am typically staying at his place as it is bigger/more room.  I have two dogs that come to his place on the weekends, but during the weekdays between work schedules it gets a little tough as he would like me to come over more, but I have my dogs to take care of and by the time they eat/play with them/my hectic work/pack schedule as well I rather stay at home as I wake up at 5am for work.  We only live a couple miles from each other, but still.  My question is when do couples tend to discuss living together (I do have some items at his place)?  I don't want to be pushy, but how would I bring this up in a suttle way?  Thank you for your help!..

Comments (4)

Your question was: When does a couple gen move in together?.

I dont know because I have not lived with a man...only been married and divorced twice.  And both of those times I moved in with the man about one month before the wedding. Hopefully some other posters can be of help to you...

Comment #1

I don't know if there is a subtle way to bring this up. If the two of you are close, why not be direct? Just ask what his thoughts are on living together without asking about a time frame.My SO & I have talked about living together "in the future" but we both have some things that we need to work out before this can happen. I still have a teenage boy at home and my SO needs to get his divorce finalized before we can seriously talk about *when* to move in together. Fortunately for us there is no driving force for us to live together other than the desire to be together more..

LG..

Comment #2

See *very detailed* post to your same thread on Mr Answer Man.  ;-) .

And, I will add here << I don't want to be pushy, but how would I bring this up in a suttle way?  >> ... this isn't something to be discussed in a 'subtle way' ... it's a big decision.   You have to make sure AHEAD OF TIME that you both have mutually agreed upon expectations. ..

Comment #3

You can use the dogs, lightly as in, gee the dogs are starting to feel more comfortable at your place than at mine.  You can also say the difficulty being together during the week part as well due to dogs and see where that goes..

 The two of you are exclusive but has there been any talk of where this might lead?.

,..

Comment #4


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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