Stupid computer ate my post!.
I replied: no problem, it wasn't much of a wait. hope we can stay in touch.
This sounds like you just want to be friends. Keep in touch?.
And you didn't have to sleep with him, but he had to ASK for a hug?.
Was it the friend hug, all ass-out & head turned, did you pat him on the back? Or the I'm into you Tiger hug, full body contact, maybe a hand on the back of the head?.
His sounds non-commital. Give it a week & offer a date. "Hey hi, heard about this great fish place on 5th St, what's your Saturday look like?".
If he's busy & offers another idea, good. If there is no counter-offer, then Bad.
Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha..
Actually, I did not ask for the hug. He asked for it after I turned him down visiting his home after our get-together at the coffee shop for desert..
The next day I emailed him saying that I enjoyed our conversation and there is so much to learn about him. Then I said 'when he is not running 200 mph with 20 action item going, give me a buzz'. .
Is this a bad signal or no signal??.
Should I still wait for a week or replied back something like, I understand, love to meet him again, take care?.
My advise would be not to bother with this guy. His reply seems so half-hearted and ambiguous. I truly believe that if a guy was truly interested, he would at least try to make as much effort as you are making. People make an effort when it's something or someone that is important or matters to them...it's human nature..
You can either sit around waiting and waiting for something to happen, only to have nothing happen, or carry on as usual. He's not the only fish in the sea. If you do eventually hear from him....you should be able to gauge if you're still interested or not..
Actions always speak louder than words...