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My first question is: What is match.com like what do you do on there?.

My next question is: Last week I met a guy at a local sports bar. He hung out with me for most of the night. There is an age difference, I'm 29, he is 23. But I wasn't too concerned about it. I found him very attractive and very sweet. So at the end of the night I didn't want to leave without exchanging numbers.

So with some coaxing from my friends I asked him and he gave it to me and said it would be great if he could call me sometime. So we exchanged numbers and said goodnight.Than on Friday he asked me if I wanted to meet up for a drink, but I already had plans. I had plans Saturday as well, but with another group of friends, so I told him he was welcome to join us. We went to this karaoke place and he was very attentive all night. Putting his arm around me, holding my hand, and he paid for everything (which I didn't expect) Before we said goodnight I talked with him awhile, in his car and he asked if he could kiss me, I happily said yes and that turned into an hour makeout session.

He than textes me on Sunday asking me what I was doing for the Super Bowl (again I had plans) but he asked me to go out on Monday (just him and I) we planned to go see a movie. So Monday afternoon he textes me and says he will call me when I get out of work. So I get home and he calls. I had a sinking feeling I wasn't going to like what he was going to say. So he tells me that he forgot about plans he had made with a friend, who is leaving for the marines(yeah ok, buddy) so I just told him it wasn't a big deal.

I told him he could say whatever he had to say on the phone and he proceeded to tell me that his ex girlfriend of 5 years and him are going to give things another try. He said things have been "up in the air" between him and her over the last month, but he just decided yesterday to make it work because "he owed her that much" I told him again, no biggie and acted like it didn't bother me. He than apologized and told me he thinks I'm great and beautiful and if "only whe met me at another time" Now at this point I just wanted to get off the phone but he continued to say that he didn't want us to stop talking or I think he said "hanging out" but I told him I don't "hang out" with guys who have girlfriends. So I told him I had to go and said take care and hung up.He than texted me saying that he was sorry (again) and he thinks I'm amazing (again). He wants to be friends, blah blah blah.

He than says that he doesn't want me to be a stranger, lets keep in touch. I told him if we run into each other (because we will) that there are no hard feelings. But he continues to say that things may not work out with her. (this is all said through text) I don't get it! He contradicted himself! Was he trying to keep me on the backburner in case things don't work with her?..

Comments (1)

Your question was: What is match.com like what do you do on there?.

Yes he's being honest. Women need to listen when a man says it's over. It means that's not where he's at for whatever reasons, not, what can I do to get him to change his mind and stay with me instead of go back to her?.

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Comment #1


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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