Your question was: What font is used for the match.com logo?.
I have never pretended to be anyone else on line to see if a bf would take the bait. But that doesnt mean I wouldnt if I suspected infidelity..
Now that you have entered into this abyss - you have to be strong enough to handle what happens - what he does/writes to this profile you created. For some people ignorance is bliss and eventually any infidelity would rise to surface. .
Has he given you reason to be concerned?..
Thanks for replying, any advice right now is great...
I am ready for whatever happens, I have prepared myself for the worse, I just need to know. I pray he doesnt but my gut told me to look into it, so I am. There is really no reason for it, besides the fact he talks to alot of his friends that are girls, which I dont mind, I just want to know if it's in him to seek other women..
How long have yo been together total. If it is total only a few months re you nuts for moving in with him. Now if you have been together for like a couple years and only moving in for a fw months OK.
Second...he will POed of he finds out. If he has done nothing to give you any suspitions then what are you doingthis for. This is not a way to work out you issues. you are making him pay for you problem. NO YOU DID NOT DO THE RIGHT THNG!!!!!.
Men are natural flirts and why are you going to be upset if he just says HI to this fake person you have made up. .
And honestly waht is going to happen if he does cheat. What will happen to you...are you going to die...no..committ suiside??? no is your life over NO. What is the worst...you have to move and you get to have another guy you can do this to who wont cheat , or maybe this guy wont, but they arent ganna be to happy. You are creating our own destiny. And what if he gets flirty..damn that willbe your own fault cuz you created the fake!!!!! And maybe he wont do this with anyone else but the fake person is just to tempting...do ou really want that in your head..you already have to much crap ging on in your head!!!!.
AGAIN BAD IDEA!!!!!!!!..
IMO it wasn't just wrong, it was immature. It seems like something an insecure 19 year old would do..
Why do you distrust him? Has he given you reason to suspect anything? Also:.
>>i am living with my boyfriend, we have been together for a few months now<<.
Do you mean you've lived toether for a few months after knowing each other a while or do you mean that you have ONLY been together for a few months and already live together? If it's the latter, you are living with someone you barely knew beforehand..
>>i have recently made up a fake profile of a hot girl today, and sent him a msg. All I said in the msg was hi cutie how are you? just to see if he would even reply, and he did, he asked if he knew me..and than also added me as a friend.<<.
Personally, I don't see this as a big deal. If someone sent me a message like that on facebook I'd ask "Do I know you?" too. And some people add ANYBODY they come across, as a friend on facebook. There are many people out there with 200 friends on facebook, most of whom they don't know and never plan to meet. My point is that until it goes further than this point, he has done nothing wrong. OTOH, you have. On top of that, you have given yourself more unnecessary stress..
CL - Women of Color ..
<<i do love him but I dont trust him, any man for that matter,>>then it wouldn't matter if the man was the Pope - YOU would still be distrustful. TRUST is something YOU have in yourself to know fact from fiction. It's not something another person 'gives' you. And until you learn to trust you - you will never trust anyone else.As far as was what you did right? No - it was immature, insecure, deceitful and something to prove yourself right. No one can win in that kind of manipulative game. No good guy will stick around with someone who views him with such disrespect.It is irrelevent if this guy has been a stand up guy or not - YOU are not being trustworthy, open or honest - therefore, he is only going to reflect back to you what you are showing him.
Hon, you are so NOT ready to be in arelationship esp. since you aren't willing to offer the very thing that is the foundation of long-lasting and genuine love - trust. You can very easily find someone who won't cheat - but that doesn't guarantee love. I urge you to get into counseling - until you address your trust issues - you will not be able to be open to giving or receiving love - because you lack the trust necessary to do so.Will he cheat? Who knows - it really doesn't matter because you've already found him guilty and will continue to punish him for your own issues.Toni.
Edited 12/28/2008 2:17 pm ET by tonitoons.