What on earth are you doing???!!! WHY are you meeting his ex girlfriend? That is ridiculous! You should not be put in that position and this guy you are dating (online dating with Match.com) is a moron...
It's not silly, these are your insecurities. But as you said she's dating (online dating with Match.com) someone else, it's been years since they've been together. Just do your hair, makeup, have a new outfit, know you look your best and you'll feel as hot as he obviously feels you are..
<< Just do your hair, makeup, have a new outfit, know you look your best and you'll feel as hot as he obviously feels you are. >>.
Lol, reminds me of when I met my BF's ex ... it was only once ... but, I looked like POO! And, of course, she looked well-put together and had a nice outfit. It was a random meeting ... but, one we could have avoided if he really wanted to. But, I guess he thought "well, we're all in the same place, I might as well introduce" ... told him later, though ... it would have been nice if he'd ASKED me first ...
And he said "you look fine" (standard female and male responses) ... and I said, "no you don't understand how women judge each other" ... he just looked at me like "you have to be kidding me?".
Anyhoo ... in the grand picture, it didn't really bother me ... because I don't need to impress her ... I'm solid/secure in where he and I are ... but, still, a gal would like to look her best when meeting the ex. Its just how WE are. ;-)..
Thanks for your replies everyone!I met her last night. We all went to a club and went dancing with her and her boyfriend and it was sooo much fun, we are probably going to do it again. I guess I should trust my boyfriend to know that he won't put me in awkward situations. It went so smoothly that I think her and I are probably going to end up being really good friends anyway. ). It's funny how things happen like that...
Glad this all work out so well for you!!!.