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My question is: What are the Match.com rates?.

My 2nd question is: Please help me.  I'm so bad at this dating (online dating with Match.com) thing and hardly EVER meet someone that I'm willing to go out with.  I met this guy last week while having a cocktail after work with a girlfriend.  The waiter is a friend of mine and said a friend of his at the bar thought I was beautiful and asked if I was single.  He told him yes and he'd be glad to introduce us.  He walked over to the table, we met and I asked him to join us.  We ended up talking for 3 hours and really hitting it off.  We have a lot in common and really couldn't believe we had never met before because we have a lot of the same friends.  Anyway, he walked me to my car at the end of the evening and asked if he could call me for a date.  I handed him my cared and told him I'd like that.  He proceeded to kiss me goodnight and sparks flew! .

The next morning I got an email from him saying he was so glad that he'd met me and that he couldn't wait to see me again.  He asked if I had plans for the weekend.  I responded and told him I'd be out of town on Saturday but Friday evening would work.  He said that sounded great and he'd get back to me with details.  At 3pm on Friday I got an email saying, "How's your day going?"  I told him it was great and then he asked if I still wanted to hang out that night.  I told him that was fine.  He responded saying he had forgotten that he made plans with his sister and her kids and that he was trying to get out of it, he would let me know as soon as he knew something.  An hour later he emails saying he can't get out of it but that he's open all day Sunday and would love to spend the day with me and could he call me when he was done with the family thing that night.  Then another text right after that saying he knew I wouldn't be up too late because of my early plans on Saturday.  I told him it would be fine to call when he was done if it wasn't too late and told him Sunday sounded great..

I've heard NOTHING from him since then.  What the hell?  Why would he go to the trouble of asking me out TWICE if he wasn't going to follow through?  I'm tired of men treating me like this and getting away with it!  What do I do?  I'm tired of sitting back and letting them do this!  I want to let him know that this is NOT ok! .

Opinions, please!..

Comments (5)

"Opinions, please!".

He has a girlfriend and is conflicted between staying faithful and cheating. .

If he contacts you again, he will give you some other lame excuse, which, if you're smart, you.will.not.buy...

Comment #1

I thought this very same thing but the guy who introduced us is certain that he's not dating (online dating with Match.com) anyone! ..

Comment #2

The only person who knows why he did what he did is him.  Dont bother trying to figure things out .. because .. if you have to spend more than a minute trying to "figure him out" then you have a problem with the relationship (thru Match.com) or the potential relationship.  The "why's" are irrelevant because .. he is irrelevant .. or better yet .. he SHOULD be irrelevant to you because he says one thing and then does another.  I dont know why a certain man treated me like crap ..

We're DONE and that is all that counts...

Comment #3

Perhaps he's following one of those silly Rules about calling you too soon. Who knows, only him.Here's what you do: Go on living your life AS THOUGH HE IS NOT IN IT. Don't consider yourself attached to anyone, don't consider yourself to be "seeing" him, if someone else interests you go for it. Put absolutely zero investment in this guy, if he really wants to go out with you he will fall over his own feet trying to do so. But until he really shows you a strong initiative, and is able to keep up a real interest in you for a while, it is best to try not to dwell on what he's doing or thinking or whether or not he'll get back to you. Let things happen, if he's a great catch then he will be caught with almost no effort.

While I wouldn't say it's a phenomenal idea to wait by the phone holding your breath until you're blue in the face, it also hasn't been that long at all since you have heard from him (though I can understand your perception of it seems like a lifetime). Concentrate on yourself and living your life to the fullest; if he wants to be a part of your life he will make every effort to be. GOOD LUCK MA'AM..

Comment #4

What does it really matter what the reason is?  the point is, he hasn't called you.  who cares why?   ..

Comment #5


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