He has a girlfriend and is conflicted between staying faithful and cheating. .
If he contacts you again, he will give you some other lame excuse, which, if you're smart, you.will.not.buy...
I thought this very same thing but the guy who introduced us is certain that he's not dating (online dating with Match.com) anyone! ..
The only person who knows why he did what he did is him. Dont bother trying to figure things out .. because .. if you have to spend more than a minute trying to "figure him out" then you have a problem with the relationship (thru Match.com) or the potential relationship. The "why's" are irrelevant because .. he is irrelevant .. or better yet .. he SHOULD be irrelevant to you because he says one thing and then does another. I dont know why a certain man treated me like crap ..
We're DONE and that is all that counts...
Perhaps he's following one of those silly Rules about calling you too soon. Who knows, only him.Here's what you do: Go on living your life AS THOUGH HE IS NOT IN IT. Don't consider yourself attached to anyone, don't consider yourself to be "seeing" him, if someone else interests you go for it. Put absolutely zero investment in this guy, if he really wants to go out with you he will fall over his own feet trying to do so. But until he really shows you a strong initiative, and is able to keep up a real interest in you for a while, it is best to try not to dwell on what he's doing or thinking or whether or not he'll get back to you. Let things happen, if he's a great catch then he will be caught with almost no effort.
While I wouldn't say it's a phenomenal idea to wait by the phone holding your breath until you're blue in the face, it also hasn't been that long at all since you have heard from him (though I can understand your perception of it seems like a lifetime). Concentrate on yourself and living your life to the fullest; if he wants to be a part of your life he will make every effort to be. GOOD LUCK MA'AM..
What does it really matter what the reason is? the point is, he hasn't called you. who cares why? ..