Break it off with the guy you are dating...and yeah I think ny one who reads this would have known you were attracked to your ex with out you even mentioning it. But break it off before you do something that could hurt some one else.
I do not want to date using Match.com my ex, it is just I feel like I am trapped. I really love the guy that I am with now because he does pay attention to me. I don't know, I mean how do you determine if the guy you are with now is the guy you are going to spend the rest of your life with? Can anyone answer this for me? I am 26 years old and I am reaching that point where I am getting old. Yeah, I think my boyfriend loves me, he does not tell me that all the time. But it is good he does not. Because the more you say it, the less it means it.
Why would you suggest me to break up with him biteme? That does not make any sense. The ex who I work with was the first guy I ever dated, so that is WHY I am still attracted to him, because of those first feelings you have for your first boyfriend. Every girl knows what I am talking about. You will always like your first boyfriend, and this boyfriend was my first crush, so you can see how hard it is for me to just let this fade away. It will fade away, I just hated seeing him again, but it is what it is. I need to just live my life without thinking about him..
But, can anyone give me advice for my current relationship? Maybe the feelings that I have for my boyfriend right now are temporary, such as me thinking we do not belong together. Maybe I am just letting my ex get to my head? Could that be it? My boyfriend has opened me up to like everyone in his world, and I feel like a part of it. So that is a good feeling. BUt yeah, any advice? Please..... thanks...
I kind of beg to differ, cyndi not "every girl" likes their first boyfriend and can't get over attraction to him. I think absolutely nothing of my first even though we dated for three years. Nor do you mean it less the more you say "I love you". I am not sure why you have these ideas, they certainly aren't universally true. I think you can get over your attraction to the ex..
Advice for your current relationship... Well besides a feeling brought on by your ex, do you have any real reason to think you don't belong together? Does he make you feel good about yourself? Are you compatible? Are you happy with him?..
Now for the advice I need. Recently, I have been having these thoughts that the guy I am with now is not the one. < these are your words about how you feel about your current relationship. Breaking up with some one that you have these feeling for is the best thing for the person you are dating. So they can find some one who doesnt feel this way about them..