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My question is: Some Match.com statistics?.

My 2nd question is: I am in a very uncomfortable situation. My friend dated a guy for about 3 weeks and they broke up recently...now him and I never met but he did send me a message(after the breakup) on the same online dating (online dating with Match.com) site my friend and I are both on. When he sent me a hello, I replied, I told him who I was and said it felt a bit awkward. Since then my "friend" has gone out with another guy who I was getting to know, and now they are dating. Everything is out in the open, so I am wondering why she is still calling him and showing up where he is? I have not even met this guy in person yet, and just tonight he called me to tell me she showed up and told him I was high maintience! (and she is the one with the Gucci sunglasses and dripping with jewlery)   Now I don't want to stoop down to her level, but I just cannot believe this..I feel like I am in high school again! She gave me her "blessing" to go out with him, so why is she acting like a total jerk? I need some advice as to how to handle this in a grownup way!..

Comments (6)

Probably because somewhere in her mind, she has bitterness that it didn't work out with him and while she may openly give you a "blessing" (do you really need one for a THREE WEEK relationship?) her own anger over this guy hasn't been overcome. She doesn't sound as though she has much maturity if she's looking to sabotage your chances, if I were you I'd start looking at the big picture - Has she been a really good friend to you in the past and is this one incident, or does she have a history of stepping on your neck to get ahead?I imagine part of the reason it didn't work out with this guy was because of her high-maintenance issues! Just a guess!Perhaps this guy is best not pursued... Do what's right for you..

Comment #1

First thing is she is no friend and if I were you I would have nothing more to do with her.  True friends dont stab you in the back..

If you and this guy want to keep in contact, do it privately and not where she can see it.  You dont need to tell her anything.  It wont take long for her to become bored and move on to something else.  She needs to mind her own business..

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My next door neighbor.

Wants to ban all guns.

THEIR HOUSE IS UNARMED.

Out of respect for their opinion I will not protect.

Them with my guns..

Comment #2

Thanks for your advice...I would love to keep everything private, but she has become good friends with his best friend (who is a girl) and they talk all the time now! I swear where is Jerry Springer when ya need him? I am starting to think he is just not worth is, but then she will think she has "won"...so I will go out to dinner with him tonight and see what happens and trust my instincts...

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...I would love to keep everything private, but she has become good friends with his best friend (who is a girl) and they talk all the time now!>to me this would be a red flag, that a man would tell all/ some to his friend and then let her gossip about it to someone else.  I would think he would put his foot down and stop telling her stuff and get her out of his business.  I know friends tell each other things and thats ok, but there are some things you just keep to yourself and especially when they go blabbing things to others..

 I swear where is Jerry Springer when ya need him?>lol, seriously why would you want this drama?.

I am starting to think he is just not worth is,>this just might be your inner voice telling you something about this is not right.  Maybe you should take a real serious look at him and see if there are any other red flags..

But then she will think she has "won"...>you cant control what she thinks or anyone else for that matter.  People are going to think what they think.  Also, I would question her friendship status..

Trust my instincts.>very wise..

I wish you well, let me know how it went..

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My next door neighbor.

Wants to ban all guns.

THEIR HOUSE IS UNARMED.

Out of respect for their opinion I will not protect.

Them with my guns..

Comment #4

Well I went out with him last night and it went ok but I am not going to see him again. All this drama is really not worth it, and it seems he is relishing being in the middle of two women...so all in all he is just as inmature as she is! But this experience has shown me her true colors, though she denies doing any wrong and still has not apologized to me. Oh well, ya live and learn!..

Comment #5

Im sorry you lost a bf and a gf, but as you said their true colors came out.  Take the knife out of your back and grieve and heal and eventually move on.  Just a little advise here.  It would help you out tremendously if you have no further contact with either of them..

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My next door neighbor.

Wants to ban all guns.

THEIR HOUSE IS UNARMED.

Out of respect for their opinion I will not protect.

Them with my guns..

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