Your question was: Should I give match.com a chance?.
I'm not sure. He wished you a nice trip. I think it would be courteous to contact him when you get back to say that you made it safe and sound..
CL - Women of Color ..
I guess if you want to see it that way you can. whats the big deal. if i feel like calling someone or whatever then ill just do it. i do what i feel like doing. .
Yeah - I was going to do that but he actually contacted me this morning before I could. I am traveling this week starting tomorrow for work so we made a plan for next Wednesday...
Great! and you know what, while I'm away and I feel like calling him, I will! if I dont, then I wont! I think it's kind of immature to think about ball in who's court bec if x person really likes me, he should be haaaappy to hear from me. .
Yes though after the weekend if you haven't heard from him and contact him its' not terrible..
I agree. A casual email saying you had a great time, but good to be back and hope he's doing well is fine. The next move, if any, is up to him.
In the early stages of a relationship (thru Match.com) you do want the guy to do most of the asking but it doesn't mean you can't take some initiative too. But in your case glad it worked out.