Your question was: My profile oicture was not accepted and there are a lot worse one's on your sight, I just left match.
What I would do is the packing up and leaving at the desk. ..
"Can I pack his things and tell him I will leave them at the front desk?".
Yes. He's a mighty cold person. I wouldnt extend much warmth to him if I were you...
IMO, you don't have a "right" to tell him he can't pick up his stuff but you DO have a right to not see him when he does. I personally think it would be really tough to pack up his stuff and wouldn't want to do it. If you think you can handle it or even think it might be good closure for you, then yes, pack it up and leave it somewhere he can pick it up without bothering you. Or if you don't think you can do it without being emotional or whatever, tell him a time that he can come pack his stuff that YOU will be gone but maybe have a friend or family member be there in your place to let him in and "supervise" per se. .
It sucks this happened but you're better off. Good luck.
Welcome to the board!!.
So sorry that this happened!!!.
You don't have to see him if you don't want to!!! When my husband left me I didn't like seeing him either. Ask a really good close friend to come over and help you pack his stuff up and definitly leave it at the front desk!!!.
Lots of hugs,.