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My first question is: Match.com won't open?.

My next question is: I posted this on another board but I'm not sure where I'll get the most "help". =).

Question...I've been dating (online dating with Match.com) someone for only 2 weeks and he's already wanting me to meet his friends.  And I don't mean one or 2, I mean lots.  Take tonight for example: we were suppose to have a small group (5 of us) and it's turned into 10 of his friends (guys, girls, couples, all of it) and me.  I'm sure that number will continue to grow, too.  He says that there shouldn't be too much emphasis put on it (he thinks I do) and that it's a good opportunity to see how everyone interacts, gets along, etc.  Um, wow...that's a lot of pressure for TWO WEEKS!  When he and I meet up, we're still quiet for the first 30 min or so.  I know that he doesn't see tonight as "pressure" because they're all HIS friends!  Why is it so important for him to introduce me to everyone so quickly?..

Comments (5)

Your question was: Match.com won't open?.

Did you tell him you felt uncomfortable being thrust into such a pressured situation this quickly? If he thought about what it would feel like for him to meet 20 of your friends all at once he'd have more understanding.  Empathy is the key to understanding each other's positions.

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Comment #1

I agree.  Life is better when we live in the moment. We're ruled by anxiety and depression when we obsess about past and/or future.

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Comment #2

I would luv it if tha would happen to me lol...i've been with someone for 7 months and cant get him to hold my hand..im dying for the attention and yours is giving it to u, but in his most comfortable way..maybe he thinks this will help break the long ice of 30 min??.

Leahsluck..

Comment #3

Yes, it is best to take things day to day.  When a woman actually allows herself to dream about the future with a man she usually ends up hurt...

Comment #4

I agree. Just try to have fun in the moment and let the future take care of itself.

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Comment #5


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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