Match.com - Why is no one is responding to my profile?
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My first question is: Match.com - Why is no one is responding to my profile?.
My next question is: Hi all. I started to date using Match.com this guy a little over 2 months ago. He is almost everything I say I want in a man...he is kind, generous, understanding, sweet, faithful, calls when he says he will, shows up on time, etc. He is everything I should want in a good, decent man. The problem is, I do not feel that special connection with him. I don't miss him when he isn't around, I don't think about him when we aren't together, I don't get nervous when he is coming over, I don't anticipate his phone calls...nothing. There is no spark...no chemistry..
I have stayed with him for this long because I want to give him the chance and myself the chance to create that chemistry. But I don't want to lead him on and I am afraid that's what I am doing. I have considered breaking up with him because I don't want to be unfair but all of my friends and family tell me that I should really give this a fair shot. I have spoken to him about it and he says he will put in an effort to be more talkative and more open. How great is that!!! A guy who wants to put in the effort...and still I feel nothing for him..
I have a couple questions here: If you know it isn't "there" is it unfair to continue the relationship? How long is too long to date using Match.com someone if it isn't "there"? Also, I am in my 30s so I'm wondering if we grow out of "butterflies" when you start dating (online dating with Match.com) a new guy?.
Any help would be appreciated. TY!.
Your question was: Match.com - Why is no one is responding to my profile?.
By now you should be feeling something - as long as you are emotionally available to him. So, since you dont really "feel it" - then it is wise to let it go..
This is why men feel that being "nice" doesnt work - it is not about being "nice" - it is about whether or not the two people click well together - chemistry as you say. Men, like women, need to understand that not every person is bound to have a relationship (thru Match.com) with you. dating (online dating with Match.com) is a filtering process...