Your question was: Match.com Who hasviewed me shows very young girls. How do I delete?.
My advice would first be: don't date using Match.com your ex's friend, or your friend's ex. It gets complicated, and even messy. However, you have to know what works for you..
Ex is being typical; his friend is dating (online dating with Match.com) you so now he acts interested. You said before he was never ready for a relationship; just because he's acting this way doesn't mean that he's now head over heels. This is an ego thing. I think you have to expect things to be weird as long you are dating (online dating with Match.com) the friend AND roommate of an ex..
>>The only person who has an issue is the ex's current person he is dating, not serious just dating. She is friends with Sean and told him that she sees it as an issue for her?<<.
I can see her point. It would be weird for me too...
Thanks for the post. It is an odd place to be that I know. But Sean and I have been very very close for years. I find it funny that my ex is now following him around and in the background when we are on the phone. My ex even asked him how things are going with us? Im like ok then. My ex wasnt like this when he and I dated.
The men want what they cant have. He knows I am faithful and a good women. It is still new to me. Sean is in love with me and has been for 3 years. He knows I'm not in love with him, but I do care for him.
But I just need to not go over alot until then, even though that is what Sean wants. Sean wants my ex and I to be friends. Since last summer he is what ended to friendship me an my ex had over the way their friendship was going...
"Some of my friends think that now I dont want the ex that he wants me. The men want what they cant have.".
Yes, it could be that he is attracted to the challenge. Can you and Sean just get him out of your lives? you dont need the interference...
Ok so things are getting wierd with my ex now. I have been over the house a few times to hang with the guy I am dating. But my ex is asking him questions like how are we doing and are we happy. We have been dating (online dating with Match.com) like 2 weeks? That was last week he asked. This week he is asking why we dont hold hands and things like that? Im not sure why he is asking these questions. I mean he and I are talking when I am over there.
Me and Sean are doing good. We talk all the time and see each other a few times a week. He and I were best friends for years. So I am wondering what is your opinion on why the ex would be asking so many questions?..
It sounds like he wants to interfere. The two of you need to get away from the ex...
Trust me I'm not trying to rub my ex's nose in anything. He and I have always been able to be friends when we werent dating. BUt last year a friend of ours was having issues with him and asked me to help so I did and my ex and I stopped being friends..
But Sean wants us to be friends, they have been best friends for 19 years. We dont only meet at their house only 1 or 2 days a week. I live alone and I do have him hear as well. BUt I also need to be comfortable with my ex when I go there. We are getting a friendship back. BUt my ex worries about so many things.
No I was bored. But he is always asking questions about things. I mean he has a lady friend who is just a friend but when she comes over I dont. My ex dont care, but I really could care less for this women since I have known her for awhile. Im just wondering if anyone has ever dated their ex bff and had this type of situation..
It definitely can be a bit weird so just do your best to navigate the waters, being true to yourself and diplomatic to all.
" Im just wondering if anyone has ever dated their ex bff and had this type of situation".
No, I have not "dated" a friend of an ex so I dont think I can help in this situation. My sense is that the two of you need to be away from the ex so that it is not a relationship (thru Match.com) of three, but two...