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My first question is: Match.com question (guys and girls please answer!)?.

My next question is: I am dating (online dating with Match.com) a guy who recently got divorced, but he told  me they have been living in seperate rooms and sleeping alone for the last few years..ok whatever. I was at his house the other night and after swimming I went into his bathroom to shower...he still has all her body wash, shampoos, body lotions and scrubbies in there! Then I went looking for a q-tip and found tons of female stuff under the sink, stuff that looks like it's been there forever....not to mention a lot of clothes still in the closet(the door was open, could not help but take a peek) There are books still on the shelf that normally women read, and dried flowers all over the house...This woman supposedly left him for another man and has been living with him for a while now..why would he still have all this stuff around him? I just don't get it...

Comments (7)

Your question was: Match.com question (guys and girls please answer!)?.

Why don't you in a very casual way ask ? if he's still obsessed it's good to know.

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Comment #1

Either he is a very lazy house cleaner or he is not over her...

Comment #2

Is this the same guy from your previous post?  if so, WHY are you still bothering with him?.

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Http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rldatingdil&msg=32977.1&ctx=512.

He is not over his wife yet...you can continue to hope and stay with this, but the longer you do the more hurt you will be.  Do you honestly believe you don't deserve any better than this?  If not, then you need to work on that so that you make better choices..

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Comment #3

"I am dating (online dating with Match.com) a guy who recently got divorced, but he told  me they have been living in seperate rooms and sleeping alone for the last few years..ok whatever. ".

Oldest line in the book. They MAY be sleeping in separate rooms but dont be naive to think that they are not still having sex...

Comment #4

She is moved out and has been living with another guy..half his furniture is missing. Another strange thing is that she added a stipulation into their divorce agreement stating that no woman can live in that house for at least a year!  Why would anyone agree to something like that?..

Comment #5

Yes this is the same guy. We had a long talk about his actions and agreed just to date using Match.com and have a good time. He is fun to be around and all, but I know he is not looking for anything exclusive at this point and neither am I...

Comment #6

If that is true, why are you snooping in his house, and worrying about whether he is over her or not? Hon you are deluding yourself if you think this relationship (thru Match.com) is going anywhere good...

Comment #7


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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