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My first question is: I've just made contact with someone on the personals sight.How can I contact them not on match.com?.

My next question is: Want to get a bit of feedback on this from a sounding board.  A lady that is a friend of an acquaintance (not a friend of mine, just someone that I know from a class) met me at a function and after talking to me during the function, etc., she told me I would be perfect for a friend of hers.  She had all of these great things to say about her friend! I found this a bit odd, so I asked the obvious question, "if he is so great, why don't you get him?"  She said that she had wanted him, but unfortunatelly he was not attracted to her in that way (sexually).  They had already had a talk about this apparently.  She said she cried for weeks after he told her and then added "his 2 hour calls stopped after that".  They are still friends, but things are different.  I asked her if she was sure she was over him and that maybe she wanted to wait and see if things changed - she said that things were not going to change...that this was the way it is..

I am curious about the man I have to be honest, but also a bit apprehensive about the posibility of getting myself in a triangle type of thing. This lady is older than me and seems very sweet....but you know, jealousy can be a very ugly emotion and can bring out the worst in us (me included).  He has not called me....and it seems she took a long time (about 1 month) to give him my number (she called to let me know she had gotten really sick and had been out of pocket for a while). But wanted to hear from people about what I should watch out if things do work out and he and I like eachother (if he decides to call).  I am a bit apprehensive.  I have a lot of peace and quiet in my life right now- really nice fun peaceful life!! (It has not always been like this - let me tell you)And I want to keep it that way. Men or no men. This is the 1st time someone has tried to fix me up - and frankly I always wondered why NONE of my friends have ever tried...so, I am curious to see what other people would set me up with.

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Your question was: I've just made contact with someone on the personals sight.How can I contact them not on match.com?.

Dont do it.  She sounds like she will be a problem down the road and could interfere with the relationship (thru Match.com) - too much drama...

Comment #1

I would be very apprehensive given her history with him.  My question is WHY is she trying to fix him up?  This story sounds fishy to me..

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My next door neighbor.

Wants to ban all guns.

THEIR HOUSE IS UNARMED.

Out of respect for their opinion I will not protect.

Them with my guns..

Comment #2

You know, I did not think of asking that question.  That's a good point. I have in the past have had crushes on buddies of mine and have accepted, after trying to "get them", that they were not into me in that way and moved on, but I never thought about fixing them up with someone else.  Why would I go and do that?  I feel that they are so awesome that they can get anyone that they want, why would they need my help? Plus I would not want to be involved in their love lives - and hear details and so forth. .

Thanks for the feed-back..

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Comment #3

Your welcome.  Let me know what you decide to do..

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My next door neighbor.

Wants to ban all guns.

THEIR HOUSE IS UNARMED.

Out of respect for their opinion I will not protect.

Them with my guns..

Comment #4

Yup, that's the issue: DRAMA.  I've had my lifetime supply of drama already and try to avoid setting myself up for that kind of thing.  He has not called, maybe he too is apprehensive about being set up by someone he knows was interested in him....and why...and what is my relationship (thru Match.com) to this person, etc., so this might all be a non-issue.  Just wanted to see if others saw this as being a potential problem. .

I've never had any of my real friends fix me up or introduce me to anyone and have always wondered why.  I too have never introduced anyone either, so there we go..

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Comment #5


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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