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Why don't you try saying something like this? "I would like to put the "emotional stuff" on the table right now while I figure things out. Maybe just being friends right now is the best thing."This is what I am doing. I've decided to keep my distance at the moment because I DON'T want to project anything onto anyone new. I feel I am doing the right thing and it's healthy. I am doing the REAL work, so I CAN have the "love" and relationship (thru Match.com) I want - one where "both" people are happy and "in love"...
This guy is playing games with your head. You do not want to continue to live in the state your in now do you? As long as you are with him that is how it will be. It will hurt and you will take time to heal but you need to break it totally off with him, have no contact at all and allow yourself the grieving healing time, then move on to find a man that truly wants to be with you..
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If he is telling you that he doesnt perceive the two of you as dating (online dating with Match.com) .. then you are not dating. You are spending time together, sleeping with each other, having some fun, talking, but you are not officially dating. If you are holding on to some hope that things are going to change after the last 9 months .. without his verbal commitment to do so .. then you are working off of "hope" instead ofbasing your feelings on tangible actions coming from him...
I know yall are right, I do. it's just hard. but i'm not going to call or text. he can call me and i'll go over strong and no sex and lay it out. he can either do it or not. but at least i'll have my answer and I can move on if I need to.
I'm just beat down from it all.
Well thought I would update!.
So I broke it off with him and laid it down exactly. that I need that committed relationship, the dating (online dating with Match.com) the closnes and if he can't do it then we need to not be together. so I walked. he said he would like time to get his life in order and then have us meet and see how our lives are and if we want to date using Match.com or not.
I'm not holding my breath.
However, in the meantime.. I have met two really nice guys. so casually dating (online dating with Match.com) to see who I am more attracted to and who I am willing to get into a commited relationship (thru Match.com) with. it is the same for the both of them.
So who knows what will happen. but yall are so right.. I took months to heal and cry over him. but now i'm done and going in a more positive direction..
So thank you all!.
Good for you. But give yourself time to heal - don't jump into a rebound thing. Good luck.
Good job on moving on! Enjoy the new men and have simple fun with them. Casual dating (online dating with Match.com) sounds like a good direction to move in..
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