Your question was: Is match.com the best? my cousin needs a man....?.
Of course she's interested in you, she wouldn't be spending time with you if she weren't. Her actions are showing you her interest..
But no one can predict the future and the two of you need to get to know each other a whole lot better before you can even begin to know if you're compatible for the long run. .
To her, meeting the family may not be the big deal it is to you. So for her, it may well be consistent with going slowly..
I'd give it at least 3-4 months of dating (online dating with Match.com) before you start getting into how she feels about you. As long as she's accepting dates with you, and showing enthusiasm and appreciation on the dates, that's what is appropriate at this early point..
I think that if the two of you are not in a serious relationship (thru Match.com) she has no business being involved in your children's lives. It sounds like SHE is the one who needs to take a step back with your kids if she doesnt wish to deepen the emotional and physical intimacy that a relationship (thru Match.com) requires...
It sounds like she's being honest about needing to go at a comfortable pace while her actions are showing she is interested and "joined" to a certain extent. So relax and enjoy.
Thanks. What you said is what I was thinking. Obviously I like her and am looking for a sign of interest from her. Relaxing is hard for me to do - I don't want her to go away. How to relax?..
Thanks. That's what confuses me, she says she wants to go slow but she has had the families meet and is concerned about my adult kids all the time. To me, slow and family interaction don't quite equal slow. Confusing to me!!..