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I started at a new gym about 6 months ago and have been going daily. For the past few months I've noticed a guy there that I have become very interested in, even though we have never spoken. I am tired of waiting for him to come talk to me, but don't know if, or how, I should approach him.

When I'm at the gym I prefer that everyone leave me alone and not to talk to me... I'm afraid he feels the same and I'll be bothering him if I go up to him. Not to mention the fact that I don't want to come across as some creepy girl who wants to talk to him even though we've never even spoken. Lastly, I have not been able to come up with a single thing to say!.

You'd never know I am a 26 year old woman... judging by this email you'd probably assume I'm a 13 year old teenager. I'm just sick of waiting around. I'm pretty sure he's interested too, but he's not saying anything. What can a woman say to initiate conversation with a complete stranger without coming off like a total creeper?!..

Comments (4)

Ask him how to use a certain piece of equipment or get on a treadmill next to him and say hello.  Or ask him if he goes to any of the personal trainers at the gym and can make a recommendation (even if you have no intention of going to one - it just gets conversation started)..

He might not have approached you because he might be unavailable or uninterested but if you start out with something simple and try to start a little conversation, you'll be able to guage his interest fairly quickly by his response..

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Edited 4/23/2008 4:40 pm ET by vexer_hw.

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Comment #1

Guys always like to feel they're of help. Maybe you can ask him about a particular piece of equipment or a comment about if he's taken a class the gym gives, it sounds interesting... In other words just start a casual conversation about something you obviously have in common. Good luck.

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Comment #2

If he likes you, he won't be annoyed if you approach him, he'll be excited...

Comment #3

Absolutely.  Friendly and casual is totally the right tone to project.

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Comment #4


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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