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My question is: Is Match.com effective for dating?.

Haha.. I haven't used this term since Elementary School! But I'm almost 27 now and recently back into the dating (online dating with Match.com) game after 4 years being single. I'm really into this guy and really want to get intimate with him but I'm too scared to make the first move. He is totally respectful in that he won't pressure me to do anything, but the thing is I want to take things a little further but I'm scared!So far when we're watching movies at his place we would cuddle but I have a tendancy to keep my hands to myself and not show affection.. but it's totally not the case. How can I get myself to be more open?..

Comments (4)

Hi kittykat888,.

Welcome to the board!!!.

If you are not sure what to do, then you should wait until you are comfortable.  I've always lived by this idea and it has paid off well.  If this is just nerves, then it is okay to try to push yourself a little.  You will figure this out as you go..

Good Luck,.

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Comment #1

Are you a touchy feely person by nature?  Do you touch people when you talk to them?  Are you affectionate with friends or family?..

Comment #2

Those are great questions! I think you nailed the issue right there. I am not a touchy feeling person and I tend not to show my emotions in general. Sounds like a bigger issue I would need to work on. .

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But I also like the idea of the other post to take things at my own pace and reach out when I am comfortable, however inside I really want to but am afraid on the outside.

I've considered mentioning this to him but I'm also thinking it may be too early in the stage to do so since we are both just going with the flow and are both seemingly happy and having fun! Dont want to open a can of worms if I don't have to....

Thanks for your responses =)..

Comment #3

<< I've considered mentioning this to him but I'm also thinking it may be too early in the stage to do so since we are both just going with the flow and are both seemingly happy and having fun! Dont want to open a can of worms if I don't have to... >>.

My vote:  Just go with the flow.  This isn't the kind of thing that needs to be discussed, per se.  Its more about just 'doing' than 'talking' about it.   So long as you feel comfortable in his presence, then ... it will happen naturally...

Comment #4


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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