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My question is: Is it worth it to use Match.com?.

My 2nd question is: Hi everyone! I figured i'll ask you guys for your opinion as well as my close friends. I'm 27 years old and i'm dating (online dating with Match.com) a 37 year old man who is looking for long-term relationship. We have been dating (online dating with Match.com) for 2 months exclusively. He's quite stable with a stable job and recently bought his own house. We enjoy being together and spending time doing outdoor activities. Recently, we became intimate and thoughts of sex came about, especially since we went on a road trip and spent the weekend together.

I have told him about why I am a virgin and I go on asking if there can be a serious relationship (thru Match.com) before having sex. he goes on telling me during our weekend trip together he was expecting sex and when he didn't get it he felt rejected and not wanted. at that point I felt awful! after that conversation, he still does call and text me nearly everyday.This weekend we spent another weekend together but at his house. I intended to have sex with him because I wanted to please him so much....i gave him a massage and sweetly kissed him all over but in the end sex didn't happen because he told me he came to terms w/ why i'm a virgin and said he didn't want to pressure me into anything and said it is suppose to be natural and when it will come when the time is right.I have been worried the whole day today and I'm currently frustrated because I'm not sure what is wrong with me, all I know is I want to please him so much because he have been treating me very well and is very respectful unlike the other guys I have dated in the past!! My question is when he said he came to terms with it....what does that mean in guy code? And does it sound like he wants put up the white flag and give up and dump me? Will he be patient enough to wait?? I don't want to loose him because he is by far the most gentle and most respecting man I have met!! It's the little things that he does that makes him remarkable...

Comments (3)

I agree with the previous poster. I will add that, if you are a virgin, perhaps dating (online dating with Match.com) for 2 months just hasn't been quite long enough for you to be comfortable with full-on sex with this guy. I'm a little confused when you say you "became intimate." Does this mean you've done everything except intercourse?I think it's really important for you to have sex when you are ready. Doing it just to please him and to hang on to the relationship (thru Match.com) will most likely create more problems. I don't know what he means when he says he's come to terms with it. I think having an honest talk with him would be your best bet.

And I think he's on to something when he says that it will happen naturally when the time is right...

Comment #1

I definitely agree that you shouldn't be having sex to make the guy happy or because you're afraid he will dump youyou could have sex & he could still dump you & then how will you feel? Two months really isn't that long to go w/o sex. I think that first you need to figure out in your mind when is a good time for you to have sexdo you want to wait until married, until you are engaged, or if you have been dating (online dating with Match.com) for 6 months and you feel that you're pretty serious? Once you figure that out, you can then tell him how you feel and then you can see how he feels about it. Oh and maybe you should cut out the overnights if you don't plan on having sexI think that would make it pretty difficult. If I was not having sex w/ someone, I wouldn't be going on vacations w/ them or spending the nightI do think that to most adults, going on a weekend vacation together kind of indicates that you will be having sex, so I can understand why he was disappointed if you didn't make that clear ahead of time...

Comment #2

Two months is not long enough to date using Match.com anyone and consider giving your virginity to without a commitment. For him to say he felt rejected should have been insulting to you. It's not like you're an experienced rider. I know you want to please him, but he isn't worthy if he can't wait or want to wait. You shouldn't ever use your peach to please a man. If he can't be pleased mentally, emotionally or spiritually, then he isn't going to be pleased sexually.

I wish I could take back giving my virginity away. Then I think about who I gave it to is a complete embarrassment, I should have cherished it more than I did. Giving away your virginity is something you can only do once, give it to someone who is going to marry you, shoot! you waited this long, you might as well...

Comment #3


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