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I was matched with a girl i know from class on match.com. should i message her on that website?

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My first question is: I was matched with a girl I know from class on match.com. should I message her on that website?.

My next question is: Well, I am interested in a girl I work with (I am a guy). I was just wondering what to look for to tell if shes interested also? I get the feeling that she is but I just want to make sure. We make lots of eye contact and smile and stand/sit very close together (inches away) most of the time unless it is not feasible at the moment. She touches my arm a lot or pokes me or what have you and I try to return it by giving her shoulder/back massages. She likes to tease me when she can. She is going to end up spending the night in a few weeks because of something I would rather not discuss.

I am usually pretty confident but she gave me a smile yesterday such that all I could do was look away, smile, and mutter a quiet hello after she said hers. Do any of these mean anything other than her being friendly? I have not been in the dating (online dating with Match.com) scene for quite a while so I want to make sure before I think anything more of this...

Comments (5)

Your question was: I was matched with a girl I know from class on match.com. should I message her on that website?.

It sounds like she enjoys talking with you, being physically close in proximity to you and that she enjoys you touching her. .

I dont understand this " am usually pretty confident but she gave me a smile yesterday such that all I could do was look away, smile, and mutter a quiet hello after she said hers".

Is this bad or good?..

Comment #1

I would say she definately is !"but she gave me a smile yesterday such that all I could do was look away, smile, and mutter a quiet hello " Aww man, I hope she caught you at this moment ! All the best...

Comment #2

Some people are more touchy, just in general, than others.  I would check out how she interacts with others in your office see if she's touching them too.  If she is not, then most definitely then she's into you.  I am not a touchy person, so if I'm touching a guy on the arm or poking him with what have you, I am quite interested and also reasonably confident the interest is returned.  .

Of course, if she is that way with others, that doesn't mean she's not interested.  It just means you'll have to take the next step and ask her out..

Good luck!.

Lwara..

Comment #3

I am curious, you are probably going to have a mutually wanting R ( signs are positive, go ahead!) then why " the end has begun " ?

Comment #4

Well I found out today that she recently (2 or 3 weeks ago I suppose) got out of a 2 year relationship (thru Match.com) so I think I'm going to take it slow and take up her offer to get people together to go to dinner at some point down the road...

Comment #5


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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