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My question is: I need a Match.com promo code or discount!.

My 2nd question is: Should I care to greet my (guy) friend with benefit a happy birthday?.

We've been seeing each other since December. Sometimes weekly, sometimes bi-weekly. But last time we saw each other was almost 3 weeks ago. We keep in contact when we don't meet.I usually am NOT the one who initiates the contact. He's always the one who calls / texts me. And I reply shortly afterwards.However, last Sunday I was lonely and texted him.

But ehm, the bedroom stuff is great. So some times, I force myself not to care about anything else, except bedroom activities (which what friend with benefit is)..

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His birthday is tomorrow. Do I greet him happy birthday or should I be a bi*ch and not say anything, until he initiates contact again?..

Comments (5)

If he's really a FWB and not a regular booty call, then that means you're friends in addition to having sex, so of course you should wish him a happy birthday..

And friends usually cut friends slack when they are busy and don't get back to you right away, don't they?.

Sheri..

Comment #1

Thanks for your input, Sheri. It's just that some times it's hard for me to fathom that I'm not dating (online dating with Match.com) him and we're just friends with benefit. Hence, the ocassional pissed-off moment (although I never actually told him if I was pissed-off). But I guess you're right. Thanks a lot!.

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Edited 5/29/2009 3:13 pm ET by gsartinelli..

Comment #2

"Daddy is busy, baby..."FWB = Father With Benefits?EWWWJust kidding.Anyway yeah you should wish him a happy birthday. In a FWB situation you can't really get upset if they don't answer your text right away because 1) It's a relationship (thru Match.com) with very low expectations, and 2) The nature of text messaging is that another person can ignore it or just not see it right away. That's their prerogative. If you need an immediate response then call.I'm not sure why anyone would ever ask "should I be a bitch?"The answer is always no...

Comment #3

Lol.. you're super right! thanks for the bitch-slap, exactly what I needed..

Comment #4

Well just be careful that when you do see him you use protection. As to the other sure wish him a happy b'day. But it sounds like perhaps you're wanting more from the arrangement than he can give. So ask yourself if this is okay with you or you need to bail. Are you looking to meet others? Do you want to meet someone with whom to have a serious relationship? Take other factors into consideration. But sure, you can wish him happy b'day.

,..

Comment #5


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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