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My first question is: I have pictures of a guy I met through match.com who turned out to be a total liar where can?.

My next question is: So, I met this great guy last week while I was out with some friends. It started by subtle eye contact from across the bar, than it turned into conversation and dancing for the rest of the night. We had a great time, exchanged numbers, and I even gave him a ride home (no hug, kiss, sex; just a ride. It turns out we live about 1 mile from each other). He then called me twice the next day, but I didn't answer because I didn't recognize his number. He called once the following day, and I picked up.

So, we went on a date using Match.com this week just coffee turned into dinner and coffee. I had a great time, and it seemed like he did too. The conversation never stopped and we seemed to have a lot in common. At the end of the date using Match.com we hugged and he told me to call him/invite him the next time I go out. So, here's my question.

However, does the fact that he told me to call him mean that he's interested in seeing me again in a dating (online dating with Match.com) way, or just in a friendly hanging-out-together way? I'm going out this Friday, so I'm wondering if I should invite him. Also, I found out while on our date using Match.com that he is divorced and has a 4 1/2 year old son, which I have no problem with. However, I'm wondering if he thinks that this fact might scare me off and so he wants to leave continuing our relationship (thru Match.com) up to me if I'm interested. Any advice would be great!..

Comments (5)

Your question was: I have pictures of a guy I met through match.com who turned out to be a total liar where can?.

I would tend to infer that him asking you to call if you're going out means he's most likely interested in being friends, but since you left it that way with him, I think you need to call in order to find out if he's really interested in more but wanted to leave it in your court.  But I would consider that a long shot and not be too disappointed if it does turn out he wants to be friends..

Sheri..

Comment #1

If you are going out with a group of people this weekend you can call him and invite him to come along, why not?  It is a friend-like thing to do..

But, if you'd like him to become the romantic aggressor you are going to have to tell him that is what you want.  I'd probably tell him that I'm assuming that he is interested in a friendly kind of relationship (thru Match.com) and that's fine, but if he wants me to see him in a romantic way he'd have to take the lead.  This way there would be no confusion...

Comment #2

Ahh yes I feel as though I'm a similar situation! Yah know it's 2008 and things have changed perhaps he is rusty in the whole dating (online dating with Match.com) scene and would like you to hold the cards, aka call him and see when and where he wants to hang out. He has a lot more on his plate after all he has a child. Yah know women can also make the first move and a lot men like it that ways! So yes call him and see if he is interested , sitting here pondering what to do, will not make it happen. Also if he is busy , find out when he is available again and see where it goes from there, what's to lose you'll at least make a new friend and he might know someone else who you can meet !.

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Sarah..

Comment #3

I think you meant this for the original poster. It came to my email instead...

Comment #4

Did he pay when you went out? Right now it's a bit amorphous but it sounds like he's interested. You can casually invite him along like he asked but if it progresses from there let him ask you out. Good luck.

,..

Comment #5


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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