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My question is: I got login problems with Match.com.

My 2nd question is: I am confused as to what to do with my current situation. I met a man out of the blue and we hit it off. He asked me out, I agreed, he then contacted several times to arrange the date. We had a great time and we had sex on the first date. I wasn't intending to do that but it felt right, so that's what happened (we are both in our mid-thirties). I did go home that night but before I left we set up our next date.

So, after the second date using Match.com (which was on a Friday night) he didn't contact me at all. On Wednesday I decided to text him. I got a response from him and he asked when a good time to get together would be. Another date using Match.com planned I felt pretty good about the situation, although in between dates there hasn't been much communication at all. So, we had our 3rd date, great dinner and sex.

I feel like he should contact me (I did send him a text the next day which he responded to). I go back and forth on what to do. It's been just over a week now since our date. It upsets me that he hasn't picked up the phone. Should I keep waiting?..

Comments (5)

Go with your gut feeling and don't contact him again.  Heck, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he still does all the asking and most of the calling and  that's the way it should be.  He should be pursuing you; not the other way around..

The more you contact him the more you come off as needy and desperate... which I can definately pick up that vibe in your e-mail. .

And no, do not wait for  him to call you... get busy, get dating (online dating with Match.com) other people... have fun girl... forget about him; he's not treating you the way you deserve and want to be treated.  Empower yourself and move on from him; it's been a week too long,he had his chance... if he was really into you, he would have called you already...

Don't waste any more of your precious time......

Comment #1

Should you call or wait?  In a short answer, neither.  To me, it sounds like he's getting what he's lookng for - a friend with benefits - dinner and sex.  To me, that has always been the problem with having sex before defining what each of you is looking for from a relationship (thru Match.com) in general and before defining what YOUR relationship (thru Match.com) is.  There is nothing wrong with having sex early but if you don't know what the other person is expecting and you have sex early on, most of the time (not always) it turns into a casual relationship (thru Match.com) that is centered around sex which seems to be what you have..

So if you are looking for more, then let this go because the basis seems to be there already.  If you are fine with dinner and a hook-up, then sure, contact him again but the precedent has been set..

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Comment #2

Well at this point I would want him to be the one to get in touch. You sent the text - the next first move is his.

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Comment #3

I agree. It sounds like he's looking for something casual. .

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Comment #4

I agree. Get out and live your life.  Don't sit around waiting for this guy. Good luck.

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Comment #5


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