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Does this sound like a breakup email to you? My boyfriend sent this to me; It sounds ambiguous like it could go either way. I haven't replied to him yet. I wonder why can't he talk to me in person instead of an email. We've been together 2 years..

At the beginning of the email he apologized for something he said/did..

"I just wanted to come out clean and would understand if you don't want to deal with my plethora of issues. You will always be love of my life and I will never forget the feeling I got when I first saw you. However, there is always something coming up to hinder our romance (either self-inflicted or economy related) and hinders our long-term prospects.".

Let me know what you guys think. Is this a breakup email?.

Thanks in advance...

Comments (7)

>> and would understand if you don't want to deal with my plethora of issues <<Depending on what he was apologizing for, it sounds like reverse psychology. Hes giving the appearance of making the decision to stay yours, but at the same time could be used as the beginning of an explanation to the breakup. I hope I'm just being pessimistic. Good Luck...

Comment #1

It sounds like at the beginning, he is giving you a choice, but towards the end making it sound like he's ending it, based on the other two factors..

My ex-fianee broke our engagement off through an email and blamed it on emailing because he could see what he's was writing and determine if it was hurtful or not. We were together for over 2 years and I could never understand WHY he could always say mean and hurtful things to my face but when it came to something like that, he hid behind a computer. I honestly think that it's a way of avoiding a conflict and it's a chickens' way out of dealing with someone. I don't believe in communicating about a relationship (thru Match.com) through email or even text because so many things can be misconstruedyour case in point..

If he wants to break up with you, he should have enough respect to sit you down and tell you, face-to-face what is going on.  I would email him back, and tell him you are confused by the meaning of his email and would like to actually sit down with him and talk about it...

Comment #2

I'm kind of impatient about this kind of stuff. When my BF acted ambiguous or like he wanted out, I said (LOL) "are you breaking up with me? Cause if you are, do it now and get it over with and don't leave me hanging...I don't have time for dragging it out."I don't know if that scared him into staying with me or if I just misunderstood his original intentions, but I will drive myself crazy if I trying to analyze; if my heart is going to be broken, I'd rather it be a clean break than a slow, agonizing crumble..

***If you don't know where you are going, any road will take you there. Lewis Carroll (1832-1898)***..

Comment #3

Sounds like a break up but if you want to know for sure you need to ask him...are you breaking up???..

Comment #4

That's all he said?  strange.  well, many guys are cowards and totally frightened of confrontation, so they'll do anything to avoid that, hence the email..

I wouldnt ever ask "are you breaking up with me".  why jump and assume that?  I would just ask for elaboration.  and I def wouldnt respond by email.  talk about it in person.  if he doesnt want to talk about it in person, then I would personally break up with him...

Comment #5

I agree dont email or text...good lord no talk over the phone at least. Face to face if you can. But I I would ask if this is a break up. I have heard so many guys tell me that they like my way of getting to the point with out beating around the bush...if she feels like this is a break up note then she should ask ..." Ya know I kinda feel like you are breaking up with me??" simple and if he is or isnt then she will know 100% + what he is saying...right now she is guessing and she shouldnt be. Be frank and calm and kind and to the point. She will get her answer...

Comment #6

You should email him and say that after two years together you deserve a conversation not an ambigious email.

,..

Comment #7


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