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My 2nd question is: I've been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years now. We live together and I'm very happy. We've discussed future plans and marriage but I've never told him that his past relationship (thru Match.com) bothers me. It is so stupid and since I've found out who his ex was I've discovered that way back in elementary school I knew her. I've talked to her recently and she is nice which made me feel slightly better. He doesn't keep in contact with her and gives me no reason to feel insecure.

Big mistake. I found old drawings and pictures that she gave him. He threw them out because he still holds a bit of a grudge against her. Well it hasn't gotten better since then. He was my prom date using Match.com but he was her prom date using Match.com also.

She was his. We moved in together, well he moved in with her also. He dated her for a while, broke up and dated her again. During that time she went to family functions. I go to family functions.

Why can't something be just mine? One memory or one aspect of our relationship. It makes me feel like I can be compared in every aspect. I hate feeling insecure but when there's you and one other serious relationship, it's hard to help it. Does anyone have any advice?..

Comments (4)

Your right there must be some differences, but to be truthful I'm still fairly in the dark about his past relationship. I've only discovered the similarities as I've gone along. As long as I'm being honest my own mind is my worst enemy. I'd rather have it all out on the table, good and bad, than live with the mystery. I love him and we have future plans of marriage and family but it's hard to go forth with that if I'm left to wonder about his past. The past is a part of who he is and I can move past the details, I just need to put my own questions to rest. .

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Comment #1

Hi brewergirl02,.

Glad to have you on the board!.

Sorry I'm jumping in late here, but I some how missed your post..

You said these are your "own questions".  unless he gives  you reason to be insecure, I'd look inward to see what's happening.  She is an ex for a reason.  And his family doesn't really matter.  I know they can make things confussing, but when it comes right down to it, it is your and your guys decision to be together..

Good luck,.

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Comment #2

Most people have past relationships that's just how it is.  Forget about his ex girlfriend and just be happy. ..

Comment #3

Wow, you could be playing with a double edged sword here.  Yes, the past has made him who he is today.  But the only person who is experiencing who he is today...is YOU, not them..

I wouldnt see it as a mystery.  I never have.  I find peace in not knowing those details because those details could whirl around in my mind and interfere with the relationship.  What if you find yourself in that same situation?..

Comment #4


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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