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My first question is: How to add a primary photo at Match.com?.

My next question is: I don't know if I an blowing things out of proportion or not...I need unbiased opinions...PLEASE!.

I am 24 and my boyfriend (I'll call him Joe) and I have been together for almost 2 years. Currently, he lives with his brother. His brother (I'll call him Bob) has a new girlfriend (she will be Mary) that drives me crazy! She is unfriendly and dresses like a hooker! They have only been dating (online dating with Match.com) one month and this girl basically lives at their house. Mary has been spending the night ever since they started dating (online dating with Match.com) and in my opinion she is smothering him!.

The thing that makes me upset is the fact that the second time I met Mary, I went over to my boyfriends house and I walked in to find Mary standing in the living room in her bra! I was furious! She needs to respect the fact that she does not live there and for crying out loud have some morals! She then proceeded to giggle (which sounds like a chipmunk) and run up the stairs. I have Bob a dirty look and went up to find my boyfriend. He knew something was making me upset. I told him what happened and he said that she has never done that around him before. And my response was "well I hope not!" I told him that I don't want to come over anymore if that is what I am going to walk into! He said he would talk to his brother about it and that was that..

THEN...their is her dog! She will bring her dog over to their house in a cage and leave it there while they go out! First of all, that is mean to do to a dog and second, it's rude because the dog barks like crazy! Joe and I are trying to watch a movie and all we hear is her dog. When they finally get home, she lets the dog out of the cage and it pees in the house! And guess who doesn't clean it up....

THEN...I went over a couple of nights ago and I went into the bathroom to get a bandaid and what do I find in the bathroom..HER PINK TOOTHBRUSH! She is moving her stuff in already! She also had shampoo and body wash in the shower! C'Mon! I have been dating (online dating with Match.com) Joe for almost 2 years and I don't even keep things at his house!.

I guess you can say that I am old fashioned and my parents raised me to have morals. I do not spend the night at my boyfriends house, I have the "get engaged, get married, move in, have kids idea" I don't want to "play house" now. I want to date...not pretend to be married. My boyfriend and I plan to get married when we finish school in a couple years. Joe has told me that he does not like her and wishes his brother would get rid of her. I don't want my dislike of her to get in the middle of the brothers relationship.

Am I making a big deal out of nothing?? I just don't like the fact that Mary is prancing around Joe AND Bob's house. I honestly feel that Bob is just using Mary because she is obviously "easy".

PHEW...ok...now I need some answers!!! Thanks for letting me vent!..

Comments (5)

Your question was: How to add a primary photo at Match.com?.

Oh wow she seems annoying. I would not like her either. Hmmmm I'm not sure what you can do though really. Maybe go over there less but then that is not fair to you either.....

How did they meet....just curious......

Comment #1

Well I can see exactly why you would be annoyed. However the fact remains that if this is Bob's house he can do what he wants. He's an adult and if Bob doesn't mind her being there, or her dog, then that's his decision. Same goes for Joe. He's a big boy and if he doesn't mind living there then that's his decision. If it bothers him, then he needs to get out and find another roommate or get his own place.

It might annoy YOU but YOU'RE not the one living there. You can think they're stupid, you can think they're trailer trash, etc., but you can't control other people and you can't make their decisions for them...

Comment #2

They actually share the house, it is neither of theirs...

Comment #3

She does sound annoying, but I don't think you have the right to complain. It's not your home, you don't pay rent there, and you don't have any say in who your BF's bro dates, or who he brings home, or what she does while there, or if she leaves personal grooming items there. If she starts prancing around naked in front of your BF, it's up to him to put a stop to it, or any other behavior that he personally doesn't like. It's between him and his bro, and possibly Mary, but you should stay out of it..

I don't blame you for not wanting to watch t.v. over there with a dog barking, so if that occurs, then go out somewhere or watch tv together at your home - that's the place where you get to have your say, and make the decisions about what goes on..

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Comment #4

HI civiccutie03.

Welcome to the board!!!.

I guess I would put this back on your boyfriend. Ask him how he feels about her being around so much. Doesn't sound like the two brothers have set any ground rules about girls in the house. I would be upset if I walk in and found her running around 1/2 clothed. I don't think you have anything to worry about. I don't think two brothers would risk their relationship (thru Match.com) over a girl. I know this has happend to others in the past, but....

Talk to your bf and see how he feels. .

Good Luck,.

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Comment #5

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