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My question is: How does Match.com match people?.

My 2nd question is: I met a guy recently at a work related conference - we hit it off for two days and ended up in bed together the last night.  We fooled around but didn't have sex.  We did some serious pillow talk about not having met someone like one another in such a long time and how we were willing to work at it to see one another..

He asked me to stay with him for the weekend but I declined because I have a 2 year old at home.  However at the last minute I decided to stay and then backed out again when his reaction wasn't as exuberant as the night before. .

I e-mailed him two days later over the weekend because we had talked about getting together for a couple of days when I traveled to his city for business.  I let him know I'd be coming in earlier than expected..

He responded a few days later saying he would be in town, to call him and we could get together..

I took that as him blowing me off because we had specifically talked about spending the two days together and he wanted me to stay with him. He was the one that asked me to come in earlier than I originally planned..

Now he's playing it cool and he was the one that said he didn't have time for games!  I was looking at this as being a fun and laid back couple of days with him and now I'm trying to decide whether I should just blow him off because it sounds like he was just trying to get laid..

I haven't dated much in the past three years being a single mother and I'm just confused.....

Comments (3)

Welcome to the board!!!.

Okay, so you have to admit that you did a bit of a panic when he asked you to stay for the weekend!! It was a bit too fast right?  Well he's realized that now too and he wants to take some time to get to know you.  If you want to have plans set up before coming into town - ASK.  There's nothing wrong with that..

Good Luck,.

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Comment #1

Could you elaborate more about him asking you to stay the weekend and then you declining and then you changing your mind?  Maybe it was something in there that got him to cool his heels with you...

Comment #2

He asked me to stay the weekend - I said I couldn't because I had to work and take care of my daughter. .

I was very rushed for time at this point too - I had an early flight out..

While at the airport I decided to stay after getting someone to watch my daughter and when I told him I was staying he didn't seem as excited about me staying any longer. .

My flight was leaving in 10 minutes so not much chance to commiserate so I took the flight home and told him it wouldn't work out..

Yes I was being completely wishy washy -..

Comment #3


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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