Welcome to the board!!!.
Okay, so you have to admit that you did a bit of a panic when he asked you to stay for the weekend!! It was a bit too fast right? Well he's realized that now too and he wants to take some time to get to know you. If you want to have plans set up before coming into town - ASK. There's nothing wrong with that..
Could you elaborate more about him asking you to stay the weekend and then you declining and then you changing your mind? Maybe it was something in there that got him to cool his heels with you...
He asked me to stay the weekend - I said I couldn't because I had to work and take care of my daughter. .
I was very rushed for time at this point too - I had an early flight out..
While at the airport I decided to stay after getting someone to watch my daughter and when I told him I was staying he didn't seem as excited about me staying any longer. .
My flight was leaving in 10 minutes so not much chance to commiserate so I took the flight home and told him it wouldn't work out..
Yes I was being completely wishy washy -..