Your question was: How do you get in touch with yahoo to query why match.com does not recognise UK PostCodes?.
I agree with the others. I don't think talking to him would help because he is probably doing the best he can right now. It's up to you to decide if you can accept him and the situation..
I would also keep in mind that every relationship (thru Match.com) has it's drawback. You may find someone richer but then not as sweet or cute or you enjoy being with as much. Or wealthier and not as attractive. I believe even though we love someone, there is something we must accept. Also, although I do feel women over 40 do find mates all the time, I think it's harder. If you have a good man who is good in every other regard, I would seriously consider hanging onto him. Many older women complain of NO dates or not meeting ANY QUALITY men. If he has other good qualities that are attractive, I'd strongly consider accepting him as he is an enjoying what he has to offer because your next one might not even be nice..
I would ask myself if it's "enough". I mean he may earn less...but is it "enough" for you two to have fun on? How much is "enough"?.
I have a very successful older sister who is Vice President of sales in a brokerage. Successful in career but not in dating. She is in her 50's. She wants a man who earns as much or more than she but I think she is wishing for too much. She is not gorgeous/attractive enough for this. Men her age who earn that much usually go for a younger gal who is very gorgeous/attractive to match his income. .
She will always be a lone until she adjusts her standards. Since she already has "plenty" I would think a nice man who adds fun, pleasure, delight, interest, sex into her life would be a great asset and worth the lower income status he has. But so far, she won't consider a man like this. I have found many older women with a list of "musts" that keep them a lone. I think just finding someone wonderful is a beautiful thing. So you have to weigh all of this..
Of course, if you really have a good choice of men, then let go and find someone you are happy with all around. Only you know what you can live with..
One last thing....he deserves someone who will accept him and appreciate what he has to offer. If you can't be this woman, let this fish go to find someone who will..