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First gift with under 3 months of dating (online dating with Match.com) ...hmm...
1)music is good - a cd or a few cds of his favorite band's music. .
2) You could also get him sunglasses - nice ones (many years ago for Valentines day I bought Ray Bans and we were dating (online dating with Match.com) under 3 months - it was a hit),.
3) a necklace (like a chain) or bracelet..
"Hmmmm.....what can I give him that says, 'I've enjoyed spending time with you. I like you but I don't love you just yet'?" :-).
This is what I was just thinking this morning because I'm in a similar situation having been dating (online dating with Match.com) someone for a few weeks and Christmas coming up. Holidays and birthdays create a challenge when you're in a new relationship. You want to give "enough"...no more, no less..
Personally, I like giving books. If he reads (anything from bathroom brain teaser books to war and Peace), this is a gift that will give you a chance to be thoughtful and show that you take notice of his interests without overdoing it. If he collects anything, that might be something you could score points with too without breaking the bank, depending on what it is..
I like snafu's suggestion of sunglasses, too.
Best first Christmas present was something that in and of itself, no big deal, but because it came out of a brief conversation we'd had, he knew I was paying close attention to his likes. We had been dating (online dating with Match.com) only a little over three months at the time..
Anyway, he and I had had this brief discussion early on when we first met about some obscure movie, pretty old, and was basically just a bunch of different bands in their first performances, however, seminal in the fact that it captured a whole genre: Police, XTC, OMD, Wall of Voodoo, Echo & the Bunnymen, Gang of Four, etc. If you don't recognize most of those names, no worries. This kind of music is one of the bits of glue between us, though. .
So anyway, he mentioned the movie made an impact on his musical taste growing up but that it was very likely out of "print" as it came out 25 years ago and was limited even then. Well, just give me a challenge, because not only did I find this movie which ended up not being too difficult, I also found and original (not repro) moviehouse poster to go along with it! A grand total of about $40 for both, but, just the other day he was telling me (again) how cool that gift was. I gave it to him two years ago ;-).
So I'd say rack your brain a bit for something that is unique to your relationship, no matter how small it might seem to the outside world..
CL-Breaking Up Is Hard to Do.
CL-Ask the dating (online dating with Match.com) Doyenne.
We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love. Tom Robbins..
A miniature card with artwork from our favorite artist on the front that we'd seen in person at a museum on our third date. I wrote something sappy inside. it cost me all of 1.5. he has kept it in his wallet ever since..
Edited 12/16/2007 2:09 am ET by blairbear08..