Your question was: How do I view profile for amateur match.com?.
What's the question? You just want an opinion?.
Well, he told it to you straight. He's been on/off because he's still hung up with an ex. He likes you, but he's not like falling all over himself in-love with you. You can either deal with that or move on..
You're annoyed by his message saying he admires your courage and tells you not to be embarassed. Well, he's right on both points-what's the problem? Sounds like he's just trying to reassure you. .
It seems like in you're mind, you feel like he has the upper hand because you revealed something of yourself-that you actually like him back. That's an IMMATURE way for you to view the situation. And it's playing games. Dont play games..
A grown-up will just acknowledge that both of you are being honest about your feelings which is a good thing..
So my advice is:.
1) Grow up..
2) If you're so annoyed by him all the time, dont go out with him anymore!..
Thanks for your reply, Blair. I reread my original post & it does read as if I were saying I was annoyed by his message about being ballsy, but I wasn't. I'm annoyed by the fact that he pursued me & then when I tell him I like him back, he shrinks away. I really am appreciative of his compliment on my ballsiness & am relieved that he's still even talking to me. I honestly thought I scared him away!..
Girl, listen, dont ever be afraid of driving x person away. I do what I want and say what I want and if he doesnt like it, he doesnt have to hang around (and vice verse) .
Just be yourself (and hopefully that is a direct, honest and respectful person) and it'll be ok...
You have already disclosed your feelings for him and now you have to make a decision as to whether or not to continue socializing with him . If you find that it is too uncomfortable or too painful to do so.. then just be as straightforward as you were before .. he obviously likes that about you. If he is wishy washy about breaking up with his ex it is best to let him go to figure things out for himself. The last thing you want to do is put yourself in a competition with her for his affections...