Your question was: How are your experiences on Match.com?.

I agree with the others..

As a side note, you may not want to focus on things like what the other girl looks like, and if her hair/boobs/whatever are fake. Even if you are a very secure and confident person, it comes of as insecurity, KWIM? I say this because some women go as far as to ask a guy "What did you see in her?" Just my 2 cents..

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Each situation is different. .

"At one point I thought he was about to ask me on a date using Match.com - he asked if I was working that weekend, but then didn't ask me out. He almost never makes eye contact with me but yet when he sees me at work - he'll come over and talk to me???  ".

If he comes over to talk to you .. it could be that you are a coworker and he is someone who is friendly with coworkers and makes sure he is part of the social network at the office. It doesnt mean he is interested in dating (online dating with Match.com) you..

The only way you'll know is if you somehow bring up the subject of dating.  You could ask him a simple question the next time he talks to you - PROVIDED he does have personal conversation with you during those times he comes over to talk - you could say something like "my friends and I are divided on this issue - do men like women asking them out?"  And then he'll answer and then ask him to personalize the answer - "what about you?  How would you feel if a woman asked you out?"  And see what he says...

This is tricky but I must tell you that there is nothing absolutely wrong with asking him out but the issue of being cheat as you mentioned is well considere..

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Hi, well on this subject only thing I can say is I have asked men out I'm over 40 and I can't wait for them to ask me out anymore Yes I get SHUTDOWN,no big deal Smile and say never hurts to ask, If they say yes then I make it a Dutch lunch,dinner date  for those of you that don't know dutch..you both pay for your own...that way it is more like friends going out...talk laugh...talk about if you think you might like another lunch,dinner.no presser...leave it at that.....

When you run into him just ask him for a casual cup of coffee. Perhaps there's some advice you'd like to ask. Men love to feel needed. Good luck.

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