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My first question is: Have any of you guys used a dating service like Match.com & actually met someone?.

My next question is: On December 15th, I posted an ad on craigslist and got several responses...on in particular caught my eye, I responded to him and we exchanged e-mails then text messages every night.  then he miss placed his phone and and I didn't hear from him for about two days, I was upset because we had talked about hanging out.  then when I did he said he was sorry and explained that he miss placed his phone then the day before Xmas eve he left with family to a vacation home and told me that more then likely he would not be able to use his phone due to reception but he would try, I said well maybe we can make plans to hang out after Xmas or new years eve, he said yeah so I expected to hear from him and make plans. We have not met in person but I don't know now if I should give up because it appears that he is no interested, but I am confused because I would sent him pictures via cell phone and he would tell me how pretty I am....why would he say stuff like that and tell me how much he likes me and then I don't hear from him??  HELP!!!!!!..

Comments (5)

Your question was: Have any of you guys used a dating service like Match.com & actually met someone?.

Try not to worry so much. .

The holidays are a very stressful and busy time for people and there is a lot of pressure involved in New Year's Eve.  Asking him to meet you for the first time for a date using Match.com on a major holiday like that may have made him a little nervous.  I would say that you should let him have a little space for a week or so and if you have still not heard from him and are still interested in meeting him than drop him a casual e-mail to let him know that you wouldn't mind getting together and offer to meet somewhere public for a drink or coffee or tea or milkshake - whatever. If he says yes than relax and have fun.  If he says no or doesn't respond than get back on the horse and look for a new guy who can really make you happy.  Good luck...

Comment #1

Why couldnt he use someone else's phone?  or the phone at the place where he was staying?  I dont like it when people use that as an excuse because it is a lame excuse..

So many women get confused by the mixed messages that men send.  I would forget about him and if he contacts you then he does.  Dont go through any trouble for him because he is not even picking up a phone, any phone to contact you...

Comment #2

Craig list is a scam. That site is the worst to look for men with serious intentions. As for your guy, he's probably married or dating (online dating with Match.com) someone else. I wouldn't wait for him, as you could be waiting for a long time. A man who misplaces his phone and disappears for days is NOT someone you can trust...

Comment #3

It's always nice to have guys give you compliments and you should cherish those, but in that same vein his actions in this case are saying something different. If guys have not even met yet and he isn't following through with what he says, it's probably not going to get better if you do meet. However, being that it is the holidays and things are stressful, maybe give him the benefit of the doubt once. But if the behavior continues, I would chalk it up to experience and let him go..

YG.

Http://twodatediva.blogspot.com/..

Comment #4

He evidently he is not as interested in you as you are to him.  Move on and get involved in something you like...

Comment #5


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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