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My first question is: Has anyone had any luck with Internet dating such as match.com or eharmony?.

My next question is: I've met this great guy in school.  In the beginning everything seemed great he told me he liked me, and we started talking since then.  He is always busy he is taking 7 classes and works from 2 am to 7 am. And I know he gets tired by the end of the day in school.  The problem is he never has time for me. If somebody likes you they will make time for you. He barely talks to me on the phone. The only time we see each other is when it is convenient for him. In a way I feel like he is using me for sex.

I have tried everything to stay away from him. I've changed my number and took him off of facebook, but he kept leaving me messages on msn and asking my friend for my number. So eventually I gave in once again. He doesnt pay enough attention to me. Sometimes he acts like he likes me and sometimes he doesnt. .

I need advice. What do you guys think??.

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Comments (4)

Your question was: Has anyone had any luck with Internet dating such as match.com or eharmony?.

This guy told you that he's not interested in a relationship. A person cannot use you without your consent, and you're consenting to sleep with him. I don't think either one of you is wrong, but you have different wants and different needs that you can fulfill. I don't blame him for not wanting a relationship (thru Match.com) while taking seven classes and working the hours he does. Obviously right now is not the time for him to be nurturing a girlfriend.You clearly have wants that he cannot fulfill, why don't you just stand up for yourself and stop acting helpless. You're not helpless, if this isn't right for you then tell him you don't want to continue dating (online dating with Match.com) him and don't answer his calls. This should not be as hard as you're making it...

Comment #1

His life is pretty much organized the way he wants it - buthe wants his cake and eat it too and that is not fair to you.  You want more than he can or wants to give - so you need to move on and explain to him that the current arrangement is not working for you. He could decide to amend things to suit you - but you need to stand up for yourself and handle it like you like him and would love to date using Match.com him but his lack of time doesnt appeal to you. Maybe next semester things could be different - you could leave the door open. It doesnt sound like he wants to hurt you so why not leave things open...

Comment #2

Read the articles I posted it will help you..

Comment #3

I understand that I need to move on. It's easier said than done. Each time I do so, he comes back and start paying more attention to me and leading me on. But YES definitely this time I will try not to fall for it. Because in the end I'm the one who is hurting.

He knew that I wanted something serious; if he cannot give me that than at least be committed with phone calls and what not.. not dissappear for the whole weekend and call me on a wednesday just to go and hang out. (sex).

He makes his school his number 1 priority and I will do the same...

Comment #4


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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