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My first question is: Does Mystery's method work on match.com?.

My next question is: I need some advice here...at least to accomplish some damage control.  I have been dating (online dating with Match.com) J. for 3 months.  Wonderful 3 months!  We get along, have a wonderful time together...the sex is great. .

But of course, I am always worried about things.  Does he feel the same as me?  Why isn't he answering my texts?  Having this stuff in my head is one thing...but the real damage comes from questioning him, 'discussing' it...ick!  I SO do not want to be this person..

Ok...so realistically, I cannot flip a switch and make myself more secure (less needy like)...but how can I at least keep this crap to myself?.

Can some guys help me out here? ...to at least 'fake' security while I am working on my issues...does that make sense???? .

He is such a strong independent person.  This is one of the things that attracted me to him...his lack of insecurity.  But now I am seeing this crap in myself and I don't want to ruin what could possibly be a  LTR..

Thanks Everyone...

Comments (1)

Your question was: Does Mystery's method work on match.com?.

Take deep breaths. It's really good that you see that it's your insecurities and not him.  The situation triggers childhood issues of abandonment, loss, not feeling loved enough.  Therapy might be a good idea. And keeping busy, have your own life. Be a busy, excited about your life woman who doesn't have time to sit around worrying about every unanswered text!.

,..

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