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My question is: Does Match.com use fake profiles?.

My 2nd question is: I am the last single girl standing in my group of friends. At 26, almost 27, it probably isnt the worst place to be but I do have concerns. Three of my best friends found their husbands through me. Basically I befriended a guy, introduced them and then a courtship started. I dont want to sound bitter because my friends are wonderful amazing human beings and they have truly found their match in these men. My concern is that my friends have all married and it makes complete sense to me that men would want to spend their lives with them.

Im worried that I may never find a love because in the scope of things I am just a plain ordinary girl. While I dont necessarily think there is anything wrong with me being plain and ordinary, I am worried that I will never attract a man. How could someone choose to be with me when there are amazing women everywhere and upgrading is fairly easy? Do I have a chance at finding love or should I just get use to the fact that I might always be single?..

Comments (3)

I agree with Undercover. I have to add that confidence is DEFINITELY my trick to getting noticed by a guy. (at least it was before I met my bf!) You might not be the smartest, interesting, pretty, skinniest, successful person in the roombut you should darn well act like it! Of course, not in a cocky way. Hold your head up high, walk with confidence, make eye contact.  Men pick up on confidence and they also pick up on poor self-esteem. You've got to get the "plain and boring" mentality out of your head! Many, MANY men prefer a girl who can get dressed up and look great, but can dress down and be "plain" and feel just as good about herself. Men like a bit of a chase and a little mystery.

You have to know you ARE a catch, and you deserve to be treated like it!.

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Comment #1

Can I suggest counseling for you? You have such a dim view of yourself and it appears you have some self esteem issues? Being in your 20's is tough especially when you have to go it single but I agree with the others that confidence is so important to attracting anyone in your life.I am a 50 year old woman never married and still holding out hope so I haven't given up yet you can't either...

Comment #2

"If you feel you are too ordinary and plain, you are probably right. So go out and find something to set you apart. Improve something you think you're not very good at."I understand what undercovercrab is saying here, but I'd like to refine it just a bit by saying find something you enjoy, something you love, that you can participate in regularly. When you do that, your natural specialness will come out. There's no helping it!For me, it's volunteering for the trails association, or going hiking, or walking the beach and poking at things with sticks, and school. When I'm involved in any of these things, not only do I get noticed more cause my happiness just shines through (I'm assuming it's that and not something hanging out of my nose, lol), but I don't care what people think of me because I'm just feeling this high, this groove.

We just made each other smile. A LOT! He was shining with happiness from things he was accomplishing, I was shining with the same kind of energy, the energies met, and voila! Things will pick up, I'm sure of it. Just get involved in something that makes you giggle..

***If you don't know where you are going, any road will take you there. Lewis Carroll (1832-1898)***..

Comment #3


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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