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My first question is: Does Hot Match.com really work and if so are there others?.

My next question is: So I met a guy about a year ago and we hit it off and hung out for the weekend. There was an undeniable connection on both ends. we've kept in touch ever since by emailing everyday, occassional phone calls and texting. We understand each other, enjoy conversations with each other, have alot in common, he's a great guy. The sad thing is, he lives in Canada and I live in California. Im not counting on any progression or future, but he's that "one" person that I'll always wonder about.

Ive suggested him visit me, but he says he's busy with work. Ive since given up, but we still keep in touch. Any suggestions out there? Im a hopeless romantic, yet at the same time Im not allowing this guy to consume me. I go out and meet alot of other guys, but for some reason this guy has always been in the back of my mind, yet we live in seperate countries and need passports to visit each other. Anyone been in this situation before and has any advice? Comments, feedback, ideas, anything is appreciated! Thanks!..

Comments (4)

Your question was: Does Hot Match.com really work and if so are there others?.

If you keep suggesting that he visit and he genuinely can't come, consider trying to go and visit him. However, if you suggest it and he is busy but makes no mention of any future visits, I'd let it go...

Comment #1

"I go out and meet alot of other guys, but for some reason this guy has always been in the back of my mind, yet we live in seperate countries and need passports to visit each other. Anyone been in this situation before and has any advice? ".

I see things in pretty simplistic terms - either you want it or you dont want it.  If you wanted this guy bad enough then your actions would have demonstrated that. Yeah, he is a thought in the back of your mind...not in the front of your mind...where it counts. Trust me...I have been on the receiving end of situations like this and I can tell the difference in a man's behavior when I'm in the back or front of his mind and when I'm in the back of his mind...I know he doesnt want me bad enough...

Comment #2

That's a very good point...the point that you made about him being in the back of my mind. however, I dont see him booking a flight to come see me either. yet, he keeps asking me to go visit him...i dont even know if it's worth exploring...i keep changing my mind, it comes and then it goes...but I do wonder about how things would be if he lived here. at least we would be able to explore the possibilities...i guess I can always book a flight and explore his city, and the bonus is seeing him...

Comment #3

Perhaps part of the reason this guy is sticking with you is the 'romance' between you has the romeo/juliet, hardship air to it that makes our heart sag and soar..

Long distance relationships are possible but it sounds like it's more a friendship. He has made it clear that his life in Canada is his priority and making time for a visit at least at this time isn't possible. So if keeping in touch with him keeps the fantasy and hope alive too much, then perhaps lessen contact.

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Comment #4


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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