Your question was: Does anyone know who does this song lyrics: and if I said I dont remember" it is on a match.com comm.
You go girl! Give that bum the heave ho! Just stay strong for when he comes a'callin' again..
It's nice to give but one really needs to see the giving go both ways. He must feel a huge entitlement about life and women to keep taking from you without feeling or wanting to do something nice for you. At the minimum...he should have given you a genuine "thank you"..
Just an FYI, professionals can be bums too so stay alert...
Yes, you need to ask yourself why you allow someone to treat you in this manner... I assume he's not the first..
The more insight you have as to the whys, the less likely you will fall back into that pattern. Best of luck.
You know, I think the best thing that you may have realized from this, is that when you STOP tolerating peoples 'toxic' behaviors, IT RAISES YOUR ESTEEM. As it seems like it has with you. That's one of the great things about esteem, is that when you started living 'consciously, responsibly, with integrity, assertively, it's easier to brush away the 'toxic' people that occasionally cross our paths..
I loved hearing that you 'learned' the hard way, and that you LEARNED. It's only a mistake when you keep doing it over and over again. Wait... that's insane!!! Hehee.
I'm sure you have inspired more people to rid their lives of toxic people. So thanks for being a source from which people can learn from..
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. He called me twice today, and I was honest with him in that I felt all he wanted was a FWB arrangement, when he told he wanted a full=blown relationship. I told him I never felt like I was in a relationship (thru Match.com) with him, and that we never did anything that did not involve a roll in the hay. This is compounded by the fact that he travels a lot for his job. .
What spurred the break up was he did not call me all weekend. Then he calls today acts like nothing happened. And when I asked where he was, he said that he had to take his van in for service, he had to take his roommate to the dentist, he did not have a charger for his phone, so it was dead 1/2 a day...blah blah. I told him, if I truly were his gf, he would have called to let me know all that before, particularly since it was he that blew off a possible meeting with my daugher by "bumping into us" at the mall. I realize this was a blessing in disguise as far as him not meeting my daughter. .
I was completely honest with him, stood my ground and feel goooooooooooooooooood. Now I am free to live my life and hopefully "find" love..