Your question was: Does anybody know how to edit personal Information on match.com?.
I think my rule of thumb for dating (online dating with Match.com) applies here:.
Actions speak louder than words, except when the words are saying something you don't want to hear, in which case you need to pay more attention to the words..
Men can act romantic even when they just want something casual. Don't be fooled by that..
But, that said, I'm not sure how it would be possible to "blow it" by asking him directly if he still wants something casual/no strings. If he says no, then that's a good thing and if he says yes, then you're in the position you thought you were going to be in in the first place..
Ok, this is just my personal opinion, but I think it is most def lame to do this by email. You can convey more in person and in turn, gauge more of the other person's reaction in person. Plus, any opportunity for him to see my pretty face is probably a plus for him so why not ; ).
Btw, why ever act aloof? if I like a guy, I let him know. if I don't like him, he knows that too. better not to waste each other's time, either way. if we like each other, woo - let's get it on and hang out etc if not, bye-bye!.
Edited 6/9/2008 2:38 pm ET by blairbear89..
Yes, guys of any age do think it's possible, because many of them (I'd venture to say "most") are capable of keeping their feelings separate even when they are seeing someone regularly. They can like you and enjoy your company but they are able to not have it go deeper than that. So for guys, a long-term casual thing is definitely possible..
For women, not so muchsome can do it but it's pretty rare..
But whatever you do HAVE THE CONVERSATION IN PERSON!!!!! I can't stress enough how important that is. There is too much room for misinterpretation and you have to be able to see his mannerisms and body language when you're talking about this in order to have a good feel for what he's really saying..
It is difficult keeping the distance with a casual relationship (thru Match.com) if it goes on too long or if you have too many encounters within a small time frame. One guy who I used to see this way had a kind of a "system" whereby the encounters would occur more along the lines of a 3 month cycle. He became kind of a bed buddy to me more than a FWB because of how he liked to sleep with women..
If he is trying to see if he can coax you into falling for him...then he is not worth your time. He can go experiment on someone else!.
Whatever you do, do it in person or on the phone...