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Didn't Even Get To Tell Him! He Told Me!

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Crap! So in case anyone read or wrote back to the "Should I Tell Him?" blog...I was intending on telling my bf about still having to be around my ex on my pool team. I was going to do it before the chance he saw my ex again. But that wasn't able to happen. Somehow he sensed it the night they saw each other. My bf brought up last nite out of nowhere, asking if he's ever met one of my ex's. I said "not yet...he's on my pool team but he was playing when you were there so you weren't introduced yet." SO...he gave this "i knew it!" speech and explained how he felt that my ex kept staring and grilling him or something.

Anyway...just updating you on this minor disaster! Thanks again for your input if you gave any!..

Comments (4)

Your question was: Didn't Even Get To Tell Him! He Told Me!.

Be extra attentative to him the next time he is around you and your ex, and he'll get the message that he's the number one man in your life...

Comment #1

Well reassure him of your feelings and that your only hesitation in telling him was not because you had feelings for your ex but because you didn't want to unnecessarily hurt your b/f- who is the sole object of your carnal desire..

Try to use this as a vehicle to learn to communcate better for both of you and how to resolve disagreements. Good luck.

,..

Comment #2

Wow...he's good at reading human behavior, isnt he?There may have been some hesitation on your part when he kissed you...maybe so slight that you didn't even notice, but he did. Maybe it was just an awkward moment..with him kissing you in front of your friends. For some people that is kind of a shy moment. Maybe it had nothing to do with the ex - more the friends, but he didnt' see it that way.Okay, he got upset, but he actually say it was "over" because you didnt introduce them that night?You might want to find out what your ex said to your BF. Just in case he has bit of the "old territoryitis" and gives other BFs a hard time...

Comment #3

I think you BF feels a little violated sort of speak maybe. Introducing him to the ex wouldn't have made it any better because he would probably be still acting the way he is now...

Comment #4


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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