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My first question is: Can anyone tell me if they contacted a lady called"sexy_gal"on match .com.and tell me more about her.

My next question is: It has been what other women are wearing-trendy clothes or tattoos..

What kind of behavior is it? Does he not care about the one he is with?..

Comments (8)

Your question was: Can anyone tell me if they contacted a lady called"sexy_gal"on match .com.and tell me more about her.

"Men" don't.  THIS PARTICULAR MAN you reference does.  This is not a universal "man thing" like anything else some men do and some men don't.  Chances are he is doing it to make conversation.  If it bothers you, you need to ask him why he does it and let him know it bothers you.  If he didn't care about the one he was with, he wouldn't be with her.  I'd bank on the fact that he's oblivious that "the one he's with" doesn't particularly care to hear his running commentary on women's clothes and tattoos..

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Comment #1

Do you mean he's checking out other women while with you? That's not cool.

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Comment #2

He has. I have pointed out it is not cool. I think he checks out others when I am not around also. by his comments about them...

Comment #3

How does he treat you otherwise?.

I don't have a problem with my man checking out other women... I check out other men too; it's completely normal and healthy... I mean, he's not dead or anything..

But, if he is not treating you well otherwise... maybe he's just not into you..

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Comment #4

 Since you've mentioned to your guy that you don't appreciate what he does, how does HE respond to your feelings?.

 If he doesn't acknowledge your feelings and adjusts to YOUR needs, he does NOT respect your needs as a PERSON..

 So if this is the case, he will NEVER respect you. EVER!!.

 Choose wisely..

 Z.

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Comment #5

Yes, absolutely. Communicate your feelings and see how things go.

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Comment #6

My friend introduced him to me because he is a sweetheart but when I tell him it hurts my feelings.  Then he tells me I am  controlling. or immature Well that is hurtful also. I think He does not.

Understand feelings. Help!!!..

Comment #7

Why not ask him?  The next time he mentions something about another woman ask him "so what's your point?" He may say that he likes a particular style or way or dress...and then you can open up the conversation.  But by repeatedly talking about other women he puts you on the defensive.  If he were to tell you about a particular item "I just saw this and I think you'd look great in it" you'd have a different reaction than if he compared you to another woman...

Comment #8


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