If this guy is interested in you as much as you are interested in him, I'm wondering why he would bring his GF along. When you were making plans about meeting up, did you discuss bringing your SO along? From reading your post, I didn't get that impression. I do think he was making a point. He may like you and you might have chemistry but he made it clear that this woman is a part of his life by bringing her to your get together. I'm not a guy, IMHO you should move on. Who knows what the future holds but for now he has a GF...
Just because a guy is a little flrity or friendly does not mean he is interested in you. He brought his GF!!!..
Thanks everyone for your replies. I would just like to clarify a few things:.
- Regarding the Facebook profile, the only reason I mentioned it it's because he does look into it. When we were working together I remember he saying that he was very surprised to know that two people there were in a relationship (thru Match.com) because he saw their profiles on FB and the girl had single. So, yes, he looks into profiles and for him it it seems to be a big deal being in a relationship (thru Match.com) and having single there, and that's what he's doing now, he has single there, although he has a picture profile of him and her, but from the picture they could be just friends..
- Second, he never mentioned that he was going to bring her girlfriend to our get together, and I didn't even knew he has one till I saw her with him and I felt just like breaking into pieces. I wanted to leave immediately if I could. When he called me and we scheduled to meet, he said "I" and "me" all the time. I guess he was expecting for me to take my boyfriend because one of the first things he instantly asked me when we met was "where is your boyfriend". It made me think that he only brought his girlfriend because he was convinced I was bringing mine (although I didn't say that)..
- I wasn't very happy for him to bring her girlfriend without telling me, not only for the obvious reasons that I'm attracted to him but also because even when I make plans with friends, I like people to tell me in advance if they're bringing someone else..
- Well, he's going to see my single profile on FB, I don't have a clue if he's going to do something but I guess I'll move on because if it was meant to be, these things wouldn't be happening. It's not difficult to see he feels attracted to me, and I was making a huge effort not to show my attraction to him. I don't know if his girlfriend noticed something, but she wasn't very happy looking at us either. Well, I won't meet them again. Although it was nice our catch up, it's too painful for me to meet him with his girlfriend everytime. It doesn't make sense..
Edited 9/25/2009 4:32 am ET by lady_marmalade2004..
Just because he doesnt mention it on his FB doesnt mean he isnt taken. I dont put up my staus because it's aprivate thing and I am big on relationships just not for everyone to see. He likes you as a friend and if he says lets go on a DATE then he will be more than. Guys may have a hidden agenda but they are forward into saying weather tha=ey like you as more than a friend or not. At least the guys I have dated. Or maybe it's becaue I am forward with them...
"He likes you as a friend and if he says lets go on a DATE then he will be more than. Guys may have a hidden agenda but they are forward into saying weather tha=ey like you as more than a friend or not.".
Please notice that before I was the one with a boyfriend!!! The first time he asked me out, he said on the phone: "While we were working together I was getting distracted by you at work all the time, but I'll explain that better to you when we meet". If this is not saying "I'm attracted to you", then I don't know what it is!?.
And then I told him that I couldn't meet him on the day he wanted to meet and I mentioned that I have a boyfriend... so, it is normal that he didn't pursue or insist even if he was attracted to me, right!? I was clearly understanding his intentions with me and I was putting him off by saying I'm taken..
So, yes, that sentence on the phone tells me he was attracted to me but he back off, and maybe during the 2 months we just kept in touch through the phone and FB, I ended my relationship (thru Match.com) with my boyfriend and he started his...
LOL one thing about guys they like heroms LOL. he may like you but he brought his GF!!! Tell me you would date using Match.com every guy you are attracked to. I dont think so. I dont and I dont date using Match.com every guy thats atracked to me.
Bottom line he has a GF and until he tells you different let it go..