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My first question is: Are Online Dating sites such as Match.com, E-harmony, and Yahoo Personals are a rip off to people?.

My next question is: I met this guy last year, we have dated on and off, we lost touch, now back on since December. I really like him and plan on having a relationship (thru Match.com) with him. I have two kids and they spend everyother week with me. This week they are with me so he's not contacting me too much. He usually initiates the phone calls. The last time I spoke to him was Sunday, so after much though I decided to call him yesterday. He was driving to the gym when we spoke, so I had to make it kind of short.

I told him that I had been thinking about him, and he enthusiastically replied, "me too", then I followed saying: " I think about you everyday", and he replied "Don't think about me too much", I was upset, and he said, "i was kidding, I didn't mean anything, by that", which leaves me feeling cold about how he feels about me. I told him that I won't say things like that anymore, and he kept saying, he was just kidding...what should I do to conquer his heart, any advise?..

Comments (4)

Your question was: Are Online Dating sites such as Match.com, E-harmony, and Yahoo Personals are a rip off to people?.

Dont think of it as I must do all these desperate things to conquer his heart but I would back off, let him come to you, let him initiate sweet comments, etc. If he does, great. If not, at least he'll know he has to work for it..

That comment he made shows that he has guards upso should you.

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Comment #1

Women tend to think to much into a friendship and dating (online dating with Match.com) thing way to sooon. He is tellin you he doesnt want serious or maybe he didnt know what to say to you " I think about you everyday" It sounds like he doesnt think about you that offten and didnt know how to respond. You are thinking way to much into it and he isnt. Just my thoughts...

Comment #2

Yes you can't will something into being. Don't make him the centerpiece of your life. That's not where he wants to be.

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Comment #3

You can't control someone's actions or dictate their feelings, you can only control your reactions.

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Comment #4


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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