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My question is: Anyone using Match.com in Korea?.

My 2nd question is: Tell me if I acted out of line or gave an unreasonable request. I met a guy online. He pursued me & at first I was kind of dating (online dating with Match.com) someone else & kindly told him I would have been interested if only he had acted a little sooner. He said he understood, good luck, blah blah blah. A couple weeks later after I knew things weren't working with the other guy I went back & just viewed the online guy's profile. He emailed right away & asked if I had changed my mind.

Yesterday we spent 11 hours together. There was def a lot of chemistry. We made out quite a bit & flirted even more. We were not intimate but wasn't easy. So he goes home & apparently right away logs into Match.

He seemed to really be interested. So why would he log into Match immediately following our date. I hid my profile but didn't ask him to. I know he hid it with his last gf however. I sent him an email this morning asking him if he was looking for a casual relationship (thru Match.com) or something more.

I asked him to take some time to think about it & let me know. I know I should have spoke with him in person but really didn't want to spoil the moment. Should I have waited to say anything or did I do the right thing?..

Comments (5)

I agree with the previous poster.You might only date using Match.com 1 person at a time, but he might not. He hasn't did anything wrong IMO, but if what he is doing is unacceptable to you then you need to let this one go...

Comment #1

Whoa, dial it back, girl.  you want to marry the guy already?.

Hate to be the broken record but as the others have said *it's only been 3 dates*.  there is no reason for the guy to hide his profile.  he barely knows you. ..

Comment #2

I think you misunderstood. I would never ask someone to hide his profile after just 3 dates. I just wanted to know exactly what is he that he's looking for? I'm not into dating (online dating with Match.com) players...been there, done that. I made it clear in the email that I respected him if he did want to date using Match.com others but that is not what I'm looking for. I dated a guy a met on match for 4 months that I never discussed it with & ended up really liking him, only to end up disappointed when I finally admitted that he is just a player.

Anyway, I got an email back stating that he had the same thoughts about what I was looking for & turns out we're both looking for close to the same thing. My biggest mistake I believe was to bring it up via email. It's so hard to interpret your feelings that way...

Comment #3

"My biggest mistake I believe was to bring it up via email. It's so hard to interpret your feelings that way.".

Now that you clarified, I think it's awesome that you had the guts to say what was on your mind.  And now you know for next time that it'd be even better to do it in person.  You rock, girl! ..

Comment #4

He logged on why did you...you are thinking to much. But you had every right to ask him what he is looking for and laying it on the line what you are lookin for...

Comment #5


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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