Thank you very much for your reply! I did confront him two days ago and he acted like he had no clue that I still had feelings for him. I know this is total bull because we have been having "couple-like" conversations. One night when he called he even asked if I had forgotten about him. This man has no emotions what so ever. I know that he dated a girl for 5 years and the day after they broke up he was out like nothing had ever happened. .
One thing he did tell me that is still confusing me is that I am "different than his other friends-guys and girls". he "thinks more of me than just a friend". What the heck does that mean?! .
I told him we did not need to speak for a while if ever again. He hurt me and he knows..he has hurt me in the past. His ego is amazingly huge and he loves power. I know now I could never be with someone like that..
Thank you again!..
He keeps in touch with you like this in order to make sure you're not moving on. Even if there was "nothing there" feelings-wise (I'm sure there was something, but maybe not enough), it hurts to have someone move on from you, it is real a blow to the ego. He is doing this entirely to keep his ego from being bruised by the reality of you getting over him.My best guess is that if you wanted to see his calls and attention increase, it would be by moving on and dating (online dating with Match.com) someone else.You should tell him that you're done with him and that you don't want him to call you anymore. Don't allow him to feel like he's keeping you on the hook, trust me none of this is because he cares for you, it's because he doesn't want to be forgotten...
He may be lookin for a booty call??? Dont let him jerk you around...
Two months ago he was distant and saying nothing was there. If he suddenly proposes how could you trust in another month he wouldn't feel distant again? What are the reasons for his hot and cold behavoir and how can you keep from being buffeted by them?.
Here is a good but very simple answer Cut off ALL contact with him , at least for a while so you can move on from this emotionless vessel he is probably knowingly playing around with your emotions and he will never really give you whatever it is you seek from him.so just move on and dont answer his texts,calls or emails...