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My question is: Anyone know any free Match.com trial codes?.

My 2nd question is: We've know each other for a few years, but only said "hi" or whatever. He's a trainer at my gym. Anyway....we started dating (online dating with Match.com) about 6 weeks ago. We would usually go out on Friday night because he has his kids on Saturday night and Sunday. He also has an ex wife :-) So I'd also see him at the gym a couple times a week too. He would text me every morning when I woke up like clockwork, call me when I got to work, and text me throughout the day and call me at lunch.

He would tell me things like how much he missed me and cared about me and how much I made him smile. He bought me a dozen roses for V Day after we had only been dating (online dating with Match.com) for a week! He would even come to see me at my house if he had just a little time in between clients at the gym :-) So anyway....a week ago last Friday is when everything changed. We went to dinner at a very expensive restaurant and he told me he wasn't feeling well after so he took me home. The next day he had to work and then he took his son to a b day party. He texted me a couple times, but not as much as usual.

I was already going out that night which he knew. Didn't hear from him much on Sunday except for a text or two. Didn't see him again until Wednesday at the gym. He said "hey what's up" to me. That's it.

He was acting weird He didn't say anything else, so I later asked him what was wrong. He told me it has nothing to do with me. He's under a lot of stress at work and with the kids and he has no time for him. He never gets any time for himself, because he's always being pulled in all different directions. He was acting really defensive...almost mad...not at me really though.

The next night, we were supposed to go to a baseball game. He texted me and said you're going to hate me, but I'm not going to the game, I've had a crappy day and I just want to go home. I'm sorry....I'll call you... Guess what...he still hasn't called 5 days later. A couple weeks ago, we were talking about going on a cruise in July.....now this!!! What is going on??..

Comments (5)

Hi Danae,.

Welcome to the board!!.

I have a couple of ?'s for you.  How long has it been since he divorced (final decree) and has he dated anyone else since his divorce?.

There could be a ton of reasons for his actions, but the answers to the above might help me be more specfic.

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Comment #1

He got a divorce last year.....July I think??  I believe he has dated a few women since then :-)..

Comment #2

Okay, so he is still adjusting to this new single life and having the kids on his own and then giving them back.  The kids may even give him  a hard time for not being around as much as he used to.  I'm dating (online dating with Match.com) a single Dad too and he needs his alone time and then he has to spend time with his kids.  Mine has full custody so my alone time is very limited..

I say be patient and see how it goes.  You've only been seeing him for 6 weeks, so things might be moving a little too fast for him.  Do you have an exclusive agreement with him?  If not - keep yourself open to dating (online dating with Match.com) around. .

And another really big ? to ask yourself in the beginning is are you ready to be a step Mom?.

Good Luck,.

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Comment #3

Could it be that he's not divorced yet??  I'm finding out for sure tomorrow.......

Comment #4

Hi Danae,.

It is possible.  How are you finding out?  In my state court records are public to a certain degree, so we can look that stuff up online..

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Comment #5


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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