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We're both introverts this is most likely why he didnt talk much. He was probably very nervous.
He was trembling proof of the above..
The hugging thing- what is THAT about? you suggested that. I see no problem with a friendly hug..
He apologized for his comment about the kiss, I see no problem with meeting him again if you want. Its really easy to be free with words on the net you arent looking anyone in the eye. But when it comes to meeting and talking face to face thats a whole other thing especially for very shy people..
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My next door neighbor.
Wants to ban all guns.
THEIR HOUSE IS UNARMED.
Out of respect for their opinion I will not protect.
Them with my guns..
I'd give him a chance - PROVIDED I found him very physically attractive and could 'see' myself being intimate with him. Otherwise - no way...
If you dont feel a connection or feel that he is open right now to be emotionally available..then dont go out with him again. If you do want to give it a shot make the next meeting a little more casual - maybe brunch or lunch and see if he starts to warm up - and it would be less time spent with him so if he didnt warm up it wouldnt drag on and on...
I agree with yankee. It seems like he was just very nervous. The 'arms crossed' stance does not always indicate defensiveness either; people sometimes do that when they are nervous and not sure what to do with their hands. I suppose he thought he should kiss you; be glad he was gentleman enough to ask, rather than just do it. The thing is, you suggested the hug - so why question it now? I say give him a chance and see if he relaxes..
CL - Women of Color ..
I agree with the other posters. Give him a second chance and make it more low key (I find dinners awkward because the other person is 'focused' on you). Maybe try an art exhibit, bowling, mini-golf, or some other activity? It might help take the pressure off and give you an opportunity to get to know each other in a more casual setting. HTH...